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after being w/ a guy for quite sometime now we both would like to take the next step, oral sex. I am fine with it, there is no pressure, but i am worried about the oder that all girls have, how can i prevent it? or cover it up?
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Answer:
by Logan Levkoff: (06/07/2004)
Thank you so much for your question. It is one that many women have – so don’t feel embarrassed. You (and the odor) are perfectly normal. Every vagina has a natural odor. Unfortunately, we are taught to feel self-conscious about it, but most partners are not bothered by the scent. Many people (men and women) like the smell. But, if you are very uncomfortable, there are some suggestions that may help you feel better.
1. Always wash your vulva with mild soap and water. Deodorant soap may irritate the vagina and cause infection.
2. Wear cotton underwear to keep your vulva dry and clean. Bacteria love moist environments. Wet or sweaty underclothes may make it easier for odor-causing bacteria to develop. Wearing loose clothing will also help protect the vulva and vagina from bacteria.
3. Remember, do not douche! Douching and other “feminine sprays” can cause infection and harm the vagina!
4. Sometimes, if vaginal odor becomes very strong or unusual (stronger than what you normally smell), this may be a sign of infection. If this occurs, it is important to see a gynecologist.
But what is most important has nothing to do with odor. Whenever you choose to engage in any kind of sexual behavior, it is crucial that you and your partner communicate well. If you and your boyfriend can do this, than you should be able to tell him that you are anxious about oral sex. Chances are, the odor you may smell may not bother him. I hope this information helps!!! Feel free to write back if you need any additional information.
P.S. Remember that unprotected oral sex is not safe sex. If you want to decrease your risk for contracting a sexually transmitted infection, use a latex barrier during fellatio and cunnilingus!
Reviewed by Sexual Health Editorial Team
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