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I am 62 and have erectile dysfunction previous 7 years

At the time of intercourse my penis is not complete hard and premature discharge. I take many medicine but not get relief.What can I do

im hiv and have hemotospermia is it safe to have sex?

Im in my 40's and i been diagnosed with hiv and hemotospermia. I been under dr care and medication. Have severe pain in my genitals which can hardly walk. But i want to know if its safe to have sex while having blood in my semen? Please help

My boyfriend has no libido

We have been together for 4 years. The first year we were more best friends with a very active sexual relationship. We had sex 6 times a week. Things got more intense emotionally as we fell in love and companionship and emotional intimacy became strong. As I lived in a different state, we decided to move in together 3 years ago. However, since living together our sexual relationship has disappeared. Initially it was once every 6 weeks - I put this down to stress of living in a new city, living together and his ongoing depression. Things have decreased now to sex once every 4 months over the past year. I enjoy sex as part of a relationship and would be happiest with this 3-4 times a week.... not once every 4 months. We have talked at length and he is attracted to me, but he feels so uncomfortable with his body self image that he feels no libido. This lack of physical sexual intimacy is frustrating and makes me doubt my femininity. Emotionally and on a companionship level we are very close. He tells me he loves me, pats my head, will have a quick fondle of my breasts or bum every day, but it never leads to sex. Never. It makes me feel ashamed of my sexual needs but I want to be intimate with him. I stopped initiating anything as it is humiliating to be constantly rejected. I have never turned him down when he has intimated things. He has talked about marriage and children. I can't imagine marrying someone where we are not having a healthy sex life - and children at this point would be immaculate conception. My frustration has lead me to think about having sex with someone else just to have a sexual outlet. I have tried using Toys but this is not enough. I'm in a relationship so expect that it includes sex. We used to have sex and the chemistry was fantastic, I never thought we would be in a non-sexual/low sexual relationship. He has been on anti-depressants but no longer on these and his libido still has not come back. We have no children, we both work and no significant debts. It just seems to come back to his self body image and having no libido. I have asked him to speak to a Doctor (nothing medically wrong - he just needs to loose a little weight); to speak to a Counsellor - he refuses. He thinks time will sort it out - but it has been 3 years of little to no sex. I can't keep waiting. What can we do to re-start his libido? Or should I just accept no sex and companionship? ... I may as well just have a flat mate. Please help.

Is masturbation good for health

I masturbate once a day or two days in the morning. I am 36 years of age and have a healthy sex life with my wife. Is this frequency of 4 times a week of masturbation a good sign. I feel relaxed the entire day I masturbate and can work really well. Pls suggest

Is VIMAX pill safe?

As this product claims that "Only the highest quality herbal ingredients from around the world are used to manufacture Vimax Pills. Our product doesn't have any side effects and is safe for men of all ages." Supplement Facts Vitamin E Ginkgo Biloba Leaf Powder Ginseng Cayenne Pepper Hawthorn Berries Extract Saw Palmetto 45% Fatty Acids Oat Straw Extract 10:1 (Avena Sativa) Rice Flour Contains NO yeast, wheat gluten, corn, milk/dairy, sodium, sugar, artificial coloring, preservatives or flavoring. I'd like to know whether it's safe or not and is there any long term side effect? Thank you

My boyfriend can't ejaculate during intercourse and claims he can only "do it himself" Is this abnormal?

In our 2 years of being together, never once has he ejaculated during intercourse or during any other sexual encounter. I have reason to believe it has nothing to do with me. However, it really embarrasses him and I would really like to know what his issue is. Should he see a doctor?

My boyfriend can't ejaculate during intercourse and claims he can only "do it himself" Is this abnormal?

In our 2 years of being together, never once has he ejaculated during intercourse or during any other sexual encounter. I have reason to believe it has nothing to do with me. However, it really embarrasses him and I would really like to know what his issue is. Should he see a doctor?

I noticed a recent small white solitary bump on the edge of my penile head.

What are its possible causes? Is it anything to worry about?

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Erectile Dysfunction

I am 29 year old virgin male. I find there being no problem with obtaining or maintaining an erection on my own. When I wake up in the morning I am also erect at times (not always though). I finally found someone I love, and when I'm even around her in everyday life I'm erect and can maintain it. We have just started being intimate together and I find that I'm erect when she stimulates me with her hands to a point that I even have to stop her because I'll ejaculate, but when we go to put a condom on me I lose my erection. Is there any advice you can provide me to overcome this problem I'm having? We have tried 4 times in 2 days and the same result has occured.