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Rajendra Sathe has answered 155 questions.

Dear Doctor, Hi,I am a normal male, 29 years of age, and lately I have been having these symtoms: Every time I have a hard on or erection, but I do not come at all, just a slight erection, not even

I am 26 years of age, male and from India. I have had my first sexual encounter at the age of 20. I had sex with my girl friend and I found that I ejaculate very quickly. The thing which worries me th

My wife says she has totally lost her sex drive (she suffers from Hashimoto's syndrom). She says that having sex is uncomfortable. I have a healthy libido and strongly desire both the emotional and p

I don't know if I am asking this question under the right category, but I was wondering if someone could help me. I am extremely paranoid about my sex life with men. I have been dating a guy for abo

Since the birth of my first child 4 years ago every time I have intercourse it is so wet that after 5 or 6 thrusts we can no longer feel anything.

My husband is concerned because lately he noticed that the color of his seman after ejaculation has a yellow color. Is this a normal physiologic condition or a presenting problem that we need to look

About 4 months ago, I lost my virginity. My boyfriend and I are very frustrated because I cannot bring myself to have an orgasm. I do come close to having one, but I always stop him before I do have

Respected sir Myself, 24yrs . i wanna no the reason of my nurvousness. as i get it very occasionally, sometime even without any reason. can u tell me the cause of this .

Hello Sir. I have been married since a year and I would like to ask you something but first let me explain u a few things about the way i have sex. I do not use a condom, i insert my penis in my wife

Is it possible for a male with cerebral palsy not to achieve an erection until his mid-20's?

I am a 24-year-old female who has been divorced for over a year now. Since my divorce, I have found someone special and am now pregnant with my second child. However, I have not been able to have orga

I am 29 years old and do not have a problem getting an erection. My problem is the fact that my penis when non-erect is not the size of a normal adult. It is more like the size of a child, and when ju

Hello I'm a 18 year old male and have a problem with ejactulating. I have never had an orgasim in my life, I have also never masturbated before, I'm some-what of a mascacist I always turned to pain fo

Our 15 year old son told my husband and me that in the past few days when he has masterbated, he has reached an orgasm but has not ejaculated; nothing came out of his penis. He was not trying to do t

I am 23 and have been masturbating since last 11 years and my rate of masturbation is almost every day. Since last four-five years I have seen my penis' outer skin getting stretched and due to that I

I have heard quite a bit about "Kegels" exercises for women. Is there a complimentary exercise for men?

Every time I try to have sex my boyfriend can not penetrate me with his penis what can I do to help him be able to penetrate me?

I am a 21 year old male and while making out with my girlfriend I can not control myself and I cum. It is really hard to control, and is very embarassing. How can I stop this? We are not sexually acti

I am a 21 year old female, and for as long as I could remember I've been having lumps in my pubis area. I've always just thought of them as hair follicles, but now I'm rather uncertain as to what they

I am facing the problem of early ejaculation. I am not able to keep it even for a minute.This is giving lots of problem to out family life. Tell me how can i over come this. And give me good therapi

Whenever I achieve an erection, whether whilst with my partner or alone, I seep excessive amounts of what I believe to be seminal fluid from my penis. The fluid is colorless, quite watery yet 'slimy'

I'm an 18 year old male. I'm in good shape and good health. My problem is to say the least, odd. I first noticed it in gymnastics during my 7th grade year. Let's say that made me 13 or so. The problem

I am 27 years old woman and have been seeing a man of 23 years old. I have noticed that he takes a very long time to ejaculate (1 to 1½ hours), and last time we had intercourse which was our third tim

I am wondering if the labia minora is supposed to actually hang out of the labia majora? Is this normal because most womens are insideof the lips.

A problem which you must have come across so many times. To start with I have severe premature ejaculation problem. When I start feeling or when a girl starts feeling me I ejaculate within seconds in

I am most concerned about whether or not a condom can come off during intercourse in the vagina. I'm worried that if this has happened, would it be easy to retrieve or would it be a serious medical em

I haven't seen this anywhere, when I have sex and approach orgasm, I get a sensation that is very intense. The muscles in my legs and then the rest of my body tighten up to the point that it is unbear

My girlfriend and I usually make love more then once in a day but lately I've been having a weird problem with my erection. U see before, after the first time we were making love my penis would become

Hello Doctor, my problem is this. I am a mostly healthy, normal male. No allergies, disabilities. I once took Zyban, well twice actually and suffered sexual side effects. Zyban uses Wellbutrin a commo

I am a 35-year-old female who has stopped experiencing any sexual desire. I started taking oral contraceptives 2 years ago and my libido gradually went away during that time. I have never experienced

Can masturbation/sex makes one sleepy? I tend to have an addiction on masturbation before i sleep. One is to satisfy my sexual desires, two is to make my self fall to sleep easier. Because of this I m

I am a 25-year-old woman in a monogamous relationship with a man of the same age. We are not sexually active, but plan to be so soon. We have both had on average 3 sexual partners before. This current

Dear Sir, I am 20 years old, and am embarrassed about my problem, though reading some of the other questions I seem to be not alone. Basically, I find when I get an erection, I am unable to sustain on

I am 19 and I have been dating my boyfriend for just over two years. About 6 months ago we made plans to be married, with a long engagement, and we are very happy together. He is my best friend. Also

I am a 50 plus male with hypertension on the following medication: Diovan, Paxil, Neurontin and Cylert. I have no sensation at ejaculation and seminal fluid appears thick and the consistency of mucou

My husband and I are in our 40's and were married last year. Prior to marriage he didn't have an extremely strong sex drive but we had sex several times a month and occasionally more often but since w

I am young unmarried man suffering from dysfunction from last 6 months. I never drink only smooking one or two a day. please help me

Please help! I get extreme discomfort when my clitoris is touched. (Not the rest of the genital area - only the clitoris.) It's messing up my body image, and it's decreasing my libido to almost nothin

I have heard that woman should lie straight on her back for an hour or so after having sexual intercourse in order maximize chances of getting her pregnant. Is it true? If so, how much time?

I'm a male who is worried about oral sex. I have never given oral sex but I got oral sex from a girl 4 months ago and it has worried me. Can a guy get any disease if the girl gives him oral sex? Or is

I have some questions on sex: 1. Does size of penis has any effect on sexual activity in terms of i) pleasure to partner ii) making female pregnant. 2. I have seen in movies that some men while ma

I was masturbating for 56 minutes (trying to last longer to prevent premature ejaculation) using some old 'lovers lubricant' that was water-soluble. There was some slight pain on the head of the penis

My wife and I have been married for 9 weeks. She is 20 and I am 22. I have masturbated for as long as I can remember, but she was the first person I have had sex with. I was not her first. We had grea

I am 20 years old and for the last 2/3 years I very rarely orgasm when masturbating or having sex, when having sex I also take a very long time to ejaculate and sometimes lose my erections. I am compl

I have two problems. 1. Nervous and scared and lack of sexual desire. 2. feeling unsexy. I have been married for 10 months. Both my husband and I were virgins before we got married. One month aft

I am 22 married with a one year old son.i have been with my now husband for 6 years and our sex life was great. when i got preganent with my son I knew my sex drive was down, But now its like I don't

I have been married 10 years now, for years 3 thru 8 my husband and I used the pull out method of birth control, as it was not a big issue to us then. We had two kids in the first 3 years and a 3rd wo

I am 20 yrs old--married to a wonderful 47 yr old man.....our/my problem is I never seem to get wet or have a orgasm. He gets me hot enough...but I am always very dry or come very little..I feel like

My husband sometimes has trouble in getting erections. We usually have sex for about avg 2 (10 minutes intercourse) times per day. I get orgasms more than once each time we make love. My query is

Hello sir,

PLEASE SIR I MAKE A REQUEST THAT PLEEEZ ANSWER MY THIS QUESTION AS IT IS VERY URGENT AND IMPORTANT FOR ME.

Sir i am 21 yrs of age and I think my penis size is 5.5 kinds,well th

The problem I am having affects both my fiancée and me. Whenever we have sex and I ejaculate in her when not wearing a condom, she says that it feels like it burns and itches inside of her Vagina for

Hi, I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 5 years. In the last 3 his sexual interest has decreased dramatically. We have sex maybe once a month. He has a stressful job but even on the weekend and

I'm 16 years old and have been going out with my girlfriend for 9 months, and we are both still virgins. I believe I am suffering from an anxiety disorder surrounding a certain event. One night after

My husband is 43 year old with a condition called anklynosis spondilitis (probably spelled that wrong). While our sex life is good, sometimes his orgasms cause him severe pain in his groin area and c

After extensive sexual engagement with a younger woman who did all kinds of kinky things with my penis, I sustained injury to my penis. It is no longer straight during erection. It no longer hurts but

Hi, my problem is that i have only ever had any sexual sensations in my penis once, and that was when i was on the ropes at school when i was about 10 yrs old. i am still a virgin and every time i tr

Hi, I'm 20 now, and approximately 4 or 5 years ago, the day after masturbating, I noticed what appeared to be dried up semen on the glans of my penis which hadn't come off in the shower. I tried to p

Doctor,

My girlfriend and I have begun to fantasies with one another where she's an asian sex goddess who likes to suck dick and I'm like John Wayne, coming to rescue her out an Ole' West brothe

The last two times that I've had intercourse I've experienced a fair amount of bleeding during and afterwards. I've consulted my family doctor, who says that the transitional zone of my cervix is pos

How can you know if a female is a virgin or not from the outside;no tests i mean?Thanx :)

Dear Doctor, I would be very much grateful to you for answering my question. In fact my love life depends on your answer. Please Kindly answer me. Thank you.

My problem is I am having a relati

Me and my girl friend have been dating for 7 years. Sex was great up the last year. We used to have sex ever time we had the chance. When she got pregnant she seemed to lose all interest in sex, our

Biting the partner: what does it mean??

Dear doctor, My partner has very strange behaviour. He bites me every time whenever we make love. Sometime even when we just kiss. That leaves bruises, w

I have suffered with this problem for a long time now but never had the nerve or the care to really do something about it,now I am over 40 madly in love and married to the man of my dreams, and having

Hi. I'm 19 years of age and have had previous girlfriends without have the problem of receiving a erection. I'm with this girl that I love now and I can get my penis erect sometimes but then it doesn'

Sir, i've was on clonazepam for last 2and 1/2 yrs and still on 600mg of sodium valporate daily- for myoclonus syndrome. Switched on to homeo and still continuing sod.valporate. A known case of severe

I'm unable to have an orgasm. I also have decreased vaginal lubrication, loss of sensation in the genitals, painful intercourse, orgasmic disorder, low sex drive, lack of sexual desire for 10 years. I

My boyfriend was treated for depression for several years and he was on medication. He recently quit taking his medication thinking that would increase his sex drive. But, it hasn't. He spent 8 yea

Dear Doctor,

I am sure you must be having a hectic schedule, but I request u to kindly help me by suggesting something about my son’s problem who is just 5 ½ years old.

He is having a po

I have chunky white vaginal discharge with itching all over vagina & clitoris, as well as just inside opening. There is pain when scratched and burning whilst urination.

My wife and I have been together for 8 years, married for 4. Our sex life in her words has never been more than "ok" but in the last few months the situation has got worse. At present we have neither

My boyfriend is 23 and he has a problem with keeping an erection. He told me that is first sexual experience was good, however, every time after that he has a problem maintaining. Once intercourse has

Hello, My problem with erectile dysfunction is not the typical (from what i'v read) I have no problem getting an erection, my problem is, after sexual release. It takes me hours to be able to be erect

I have not had the sensitivity in my penis or genitals to allow me to reach orgasm. It causes me frustration and my partner is also frustrated. Is there anything I can do to regain that sensitivity? I

when I ejaculate for some reason there is a "jello" type discharge in addition to the liquid part of my semen. I was wondering what this is, is it normal, and if it isn't, what I can do about it?

I am 45 and I have not been able to have an orgasm for over 20 years thru masturbation or otherwise. I was able to have them as a teenager and young woman. They stopped after I went thru a serious anx

if a girl did the hymen restoration operation. then, she got married and became pregnant and she went to a gynecologist for check up, can he know if she did this operation, i mean is the operation det

When i go to have oral sex with my 14 year old girlfreind and she is able to have sex (she had her period since she was 11). She likes it when i lick her vagina / clitoris noramlly but when i stick my

I am 27 yr old guy & have a problem.first i want to tell that i am a mastubate for 12 years but now i have left this pratice for a month .after one week i found some semen in my urine specially when i

Well, first thanks for taking the time to help me today. 2 things, and they might be related. One, is that as you know, there is the tube that connects to ones testicle. That tube, is usually big,

I guess I'm writing in concern for my fiance. We have been together for about one year. Before him i had several partners as did he. While im not a man so i cant say for sure, it appears to me that

I am very depressed because I have a wonderful man who I am marrying in a year and I don't have much desire to have sex. We were very active when we first met. Now, I am always either to tired to have

I'm 24 and I have tongue-tie (ankyoglossia). I would like to have surgery on my lingual frenulum because it is affecting my girlfriends' and my relationship, as suggested by Caroline Bowen PhD at htt

I am an 18 year old male and have not yet had sex. I have tried to have sex with 2 ex-girlfriends but was not successful. The 1st girlfriend I had we tried to have sexual intercourse and she was exper

I am bi-polar. Eight months ago I searched for pornography on the computer. I've never done it before because I felt it was a pervertive thing to do. For about 5 months I could not stop viewing it a

I fear that I have a low sex drive. my girlfriend reminds me that its not normal for a man to want sex only once a week or once every two weeks.is there some kind of an all natural supplement thet wil

Sir few years back my pen gets elongated up to 7" now it doesn't go over 5"1/2 tell me the reason behind it.

i am suffering from premature ejaculation..have tried the excercises that people claim but no use..is there any homeopathic medicne for it...i need a cure quick..

I have a very small penis ( 11cm long and 9 cms circumference ). Is ther any means by which I can increase the size of my penis without surgery, even if it is a 1 cm in length or width. What is the av

Can I get any diseases from my boyfriend fingering me?

I am married a am suffering from quick sexual disharge i abt 30 seconds.

I have a question about hymen.having sex with girls who have an annular hymen and there hymen return to regular form after sexual relationship without any bloodshed or visual damages on her hymem may

What type of diet/vitamins/minerals would you recommend for a recovering sex addict?

Hi. Dear expert ! What will happen if somebody beats my testicle heavily ? Could I have the answer faster Please?

I'm with a new partner, and I can't get him to orgasm during oral sex. Apparently, he has always had this problem (with other partners and in pleasing himself) and the only time he does orgasm is dur

I am unable to get erection at any time for sex as well as masturbation.

Sir, my age is 30. I used to masterbate myself from the age of 13. Now I am a married person. but when ever i want to go to my wife for intercourse. My penis suddenly becomes wet. It also not erected

I got a question and hope that you will reply. I am quite worrying over this matter.

I did sex with my girlfriend. I inserted my penis half way in for about 1 minute. I put it out.

Then I

Dear Doctor. I am an unmarried virgin male age 27 . I do not get erection on sexual stimulie like watching movies with sexual contents. When i mastrubate I have to provide the stimulus by my hand and

Hello Dr,

My problem is that i use to masturbate too often 4 to 6 times a week on every day or with a day gap in between in each ejaculation.

I have read in your archieves that the more

I was wondering if there are any health risks pertaining to or caused by anal intercourse, especially in the female body. Where can I find furhter information regarding this concern?

I am 24 years pld i am getting married to my girl friend next month.my problem is that normally for us the skin for the penis will be till the tip.while having intercourse the skin will contract backw

My question is one that you probably have been asked very frequently by males. Im 18 years old, and well when i get an erection my penis bends to the left. And, well what i want to know is if there is

Dear Dr,

My problem is penis deviation, because i was adicted to masturbation my penis have a deviation into left hand. its realy suffering me and i wanna find a cure about it.

Hi Doctor,

I am 22 year old guy from Mumbai,India. the problem is that I had one undescended testicle which was removed when I was very young I knew nothing and believed till the age of 14 that

Doctor,

I have some sex problems. I am 28 male and my wife is 26.

My problem is my wife’s sex drive is very low. She gets mood to have sex rarely (once is 2 months and all).

And whil

We have just started a role play - my wife, very sweetly whispered to me that I would not be allowed to use my lips ie no kissing during this roleplay.

The sex was great for both of us - My ques

The problem of impotence may be a common one, but my situation may be unusual. I am 35 years old and, due to lack of success with the ladies, have never had sex. I think it must be very unusual for so

My girlfriend and I have been dating for over a year now (1 year, 2 months, 9 days, to be exact). Being young, neither of us had tried sex before this relationship, although we both had masturbated.

Dear Sir,

My Problem is my penis is 2" in length & 4" while erection. I want to increase the length of my penis. Is there any treatment or Tablets for the same.

Pls. lelp me very soon i a

Please help me doctor. I am very worried.i am sending you my semen analysis.please check volume 3.6ml total sperm count 52 million/ml motility after 1/2 hour active 40% sluggish 20% dead 4

I am in need of safe homeopathic medicine used for the enlargement of penis, would you please be kind enough to guide / favour me by telling that how I can add more inches in the shaft of my penies by

Hi, can you tell me if it's normal for a man to leak from his penies well you are playing with him or does he have some kind of disease?

i have a question relating to semen colour. sometimes i ejaculate yellow coloured semen with white. what is the cause of yellow coloured semen. i am of 23 .i have been masturbating for last 7yrs.

My penis tilts towards left and base of my penis small little bit. I have difficulties in the erection & production of semen is very little. I need the homeo medicine and therapy, Would be kind some m

I am 20 years old & masturbate frequently. My problem is that I cannot masturbate by moving my fist at a consistent rate like all the other boys do because if I consistanly move my hands up and down,

I was making out with my boyfriend pretty intensely but we both had our clothes on. He had on shorts (and underwear i am assuming) and i was wearing my underwear and shirt. I had my legs wrapped aroun

Hello:

I am trying to find out the chances of getting a girl pregnant from dry humping. I have read many, many articles on this, yet none have really specified percentages, etc. In addition, an

I'm highly involved in masturbating, and always busy thinking about sex, and my girlfriends's. Can I get cured?

Im 20 yrs old and married for 9 mos. I have no sexual desire and its reflecting on my marriage with my husband who is always in desire and I want better desire to keep our good relationship and to ma

My concern is my boyfriend has red lines, some time they are dry and chaffy, an some times look very red an shiny. He says sometimes they are sore, and intercourse is irritating. He also says that he

I am suffering from erectile dysfunction..Can u help? I would like to see u personally, as I am in Pune. How do i contact you?

i am 18 yrs male .i never had sex.my problem is that when my penis gets erect , it erect little bit towards left.I dont have any pain.Is it normal?

My problem is not a loss of interest in sex as I have a good sex drive. I have experienced a great decline in the intensity of orgasm. I'm experiencing some emotional distress over this because I've a

Hello, i was just wondering if there was semen on a chair or something and if you sit on it, can you get pregnant? I know it sounds proposterous, but I'm kind of worried. Thanks.

My fiance has delayed ejaculation. We could have sexual relations for 1/2 hour and he still has to masturbate to ejaculate. He usually masturbates a good 5 minutes until he is able. I am concerned

This is not mine directly, let me explain my wife and I recently gave birth to our first, a baby boy I was there during the entire delivery process my wife deliverd vaginally, but she tore all the way

Hi! good day. Below is my problem.

MY PROBLEM - i want to let u know of one of my problem which i am having from last 2 months. after urination usally when i pull up the penis to throw out the

I have tested my semen many times. In semen analysis there are 8-9 puss cell seen. I have completed many antibiotic course. After one year now puss cell are 3-4 hpf. Now my doctor not agreeing to give

Okay, I have a complicated quesiton. me and my boyfriend were messing around. im a virgin. i gave him a handjob and then about 30 min later touched my labia minora. i didnt wipe my hands right after

Today I had gotten a call from my sons pediatrition and he had told me that my son has a small penis for the age of 6. He said now we need to get a second oppion. He weighs 104lbs.I was wondering if t

I'm a 14 y/o male who's been sexually active for a month or so now, and I'm just curious about whether or not something I've noticed is "normal".

I've found that after a couple of minutes into m

Information about penis size,it's power and getting real something during sex.

I could see a lot of thick puss cell in my semen could you just guide me to get rid of these puss cells. would the presence of puss thick puss cells in my semen effect on my ability to be father?

Hi,

In the answer to the question at: http://www.sexualhealth.com/questions/read.cfm?ID=1723 you mention something called the Dhat syndrome.

I think i may have this, i get a sticky subs

I have been masturbating for 7 years and i want to stop because i feel like my pennis is not working right but i cant stop what can ido? does masturbation affect the size of the penis?

I have the symptoms of over masturbate - weak memory, erection problem however I am in good health. I masturbate twice a day. Is twice a day is over masturbation? I take good and balanced diet. I can'

Have noticed a yellowish color the last few times I have ejaculated. This has never happened before. What could this be?

I am 29 from past 10 years i am mastributing & from past 2 years my penis has no strength, my peniss is loose & my parents Are arranging marriage for me in 10 days, i dont know what to do please help

Hello, I am sufferring from a problem i can define you like that when i masturbate i start to leak milky white semen a bit along with the contractions and my question is that what is the cause o

If I don't position myself just right before my husband performs oral on me it feels like I sat in a bear trap. Like really bad hemorroidal pain.

Sir, from last 2 months I have pain in my penis at the time of erection. Even though in sleep its also get erected. Pl. advice.

Sir, I am masturbating from age 18. From 20 I stated masturbating while standing I used to masturbate in morning and do the work and I used to travel longer distances. After some days my legs started

Dear Sir,

I masturbate twice a week, is it good for my health? I want to erase my habit. Give me some suggestions. Will it damage my health if I do twice a week?

Hi,

I am 19 years old and have masturbated 2 or 3 times a day since the age of 11.

I have read that so much masturbation will cause impotence and weak erections. i dont think i have these

I have one question for u,if u help me i will be very happy,i am from kosovo(prishtina),the problem is:,i have sex whith my boy friend and i didn't have a bloodshed,he think that i was not virgin,but

I'm worried abt my sexual health, im 23 male recently i ve noticed that sometimes when i urinate tha last few drops of urine contain some whitish liuid a very few drops at i thin k it semen , and i v

Rapid ejaculation (premature),I ejaculate very early. Unfortunately,I came to know about sex during my early childhood days. I was not knowing true and detail info about it,but could understand that w

Hi, I'm 27 years old,and for some reason i used comphor to reduce my sexual feelings,but now i don't have any feelings and i don't get erectile and even i got erectile after awhile my penis will come

hi, i want to know can i get pregnant if a guy kisses me all over my body, my breasts...... can i get pregnant if i touch all my genitals including vagina with my clothes off. when my partner is not t

OK. this is a question about my fiancee. He is 31 and has a very low sex drive. I am 21 and love him to death he is perfect in every other way. We have a great relationship. Always open with eachothe

Respected sir, When I sexually exited then never erectile my penis but it be tight and just being start saliva sweated and when I enter my penis into vegina then quickly fall,then next desire havn't

I am 21, and i am not sexually active, but i experience slight burning and a whitish discharge during urination. What do you think the problem is due to: lack of water?

hello i am 21. i never had sex ... i really am scared of it...you know i live in iran and to be virigin is very very important when marrying. and i am scared of loosing it. but these early years i rea

Can semen "leak" from the penis with no sexual stimulation.