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Konstance McCaffree has answered 415 questions.

I have two questions, 1. is there a male g spot and where is it? 2. I have had 3 partners and have only had one orgasm with the one im with now who is my boyfriend of 7 months. I had my first one

i am a virgin but may be having sex soon. i have never pulled my foreskin back, and until a few months ago i never new i had to. i try to pull it back, but i daren't in case it rips, bleeds or hurts.

I HAVE A QUESTION. i AM A VIRGIN. wHEN I MASTURBATE, MY PENIS IS ON FULL ERECTION. BUT WHEN I AM ABOUT TO HAVE SEX, I CANT GET AN ERECTION. IT IS EMBARASSING. THATS WHY I AM STILL A VIRGIN. cOUL

I can't orgasm. I feel good, but i never get to the point of orgasm. What are some things i can do? i've tried relaxing and i enjoy it, i know i dont have to have an orgasm every time but once in a

My daughter's class is having their sexual ed. course coming up,& my husband & I have decided to talk to her about it at home instead of the teachers. It's a very important for me to make sure that I

I'm 15, female, and a virgin. I recently noticed two small, smooth, round, pimple-like bumps on my vagina that occationally itch. I have been trying to find information on what they can be and have

I am a student at the University of South Florida and am researching the current state of sex education in the schools. I am wondering if there is any certification required. My hope is to modernize a

Hi there, Sometimes after sex I get very painful testicles and a pain above my penis on the inside (below the stomach). The actual penis doesn't hurt. This happens about 1 in 10 times I have sex an

I recently had sex with my girlfriend, and I did not use a condom. I clearly pulled out before I ejaculated but what I want to know is: can she possibly be pregnant even if I did not ejaculate inside

I am a healthy person of 21 years of age I was living normally but a week ago i had a bloody ejaculation this is concerning me a lot the society in which i am living feels shy about the discussion of

My wife and I are looking for a female doctor in the Houston area who can address the above highlighted problems (total absence of libido). The doctors she's talked to are clueless when it comes to t

i was at my dic in sept. of last year. everything was fine. just in Jan 01 i started bleeding after intercourse, ive been with the same person for 2 years and 19 years old, im worried. i was on birth

I dont know if you can help me or not. I am the father of 2 beautiful sons, age 6 and 3. My oldest son had been acting a little different. I asked him what was wrong. He told me that last summer we

I heard that semen dies once it has reached oxygen .. is this true?

I am 18 years old and have never had a girlfriend before. I have never really felt the need for a partner. Until now. I have know this girl for about 6 years and we used to be like siblings, but now I

I work with hard of hearing (HOH) children (as an audiologist). Many parents of HOH kids ask for literature to teach about sex etc. I have not been able to find specific pamphlets etc. The parents w

I am 17 and I don't know if you can help, but for some reason I don't seem to enjoy sex. I have had some problems in the past (the guy I lost my virginity too was abusive and our relationship ended in

I have a daughter of 12 who started her period approx 5 months ago. She had 2 Periods and then missed 1.5months. Since then she has been constantly bleeding missing just a couple of days in between

For my health graduation standard, i had to chose a topic and i chose teen sex. i was wondering what the difference between love and sex was?

I work in Women's Health with the County Health Department doing outreach to decrease the incidence of unintended pregnancies in the county.........What would you say is the most important thing to do

I've heard about the new contraceptive out called Implanon. Can you please send me some information about this product? Or other links to more information on Implanon ? thank for your help!

I recently had a colposcopy and the doctors found that i have cn1. I now have to have laser treatment to burn the abnormal cells. I am nervous and want to know the risks involved and the side affect

My boyfriend kindly recommended that I get some pointers to improve my oral sex skills. Are there any specific ones that you know of? Thank you!

I have been pleasing myself for about 4 years now and for awhile now, i have been doing it everynight, i was wondering if that was normal. Also i wanted to know- when i do it i get a better orgasm whe

Me and my girlfreind have been making out for quite a while now. Just yesterday we were doing the same, but go carried away. We began having sex. I wasn't wearing a condom, and she hasn't used any k

I have bumps on my pvt is there something I can do to see what they are.

i have never given or recieved oral sex but i was wondering how to please my partner in oral sex and what he really wants?

I am a 16 year old female and I have just started having sex with my boyfriend. I have never had an orgasm, and it is starting to concern me as intercourse does not satisfy both of us. I thought this

I am 21 years old. I have been married for several months and have been with my now husband for several years. I recently noticed a large bump on the lip of my vagina. It cannot possibly be Herpes or

i am 15 and i still dont have my period should i be concerned?

I have been going out with my girl friend for 5 months , we are both 17 and have been sexualy active for 4 months and i was her first, she is my 4th. We love eachother but she doesnt enjoy actual sex.

ok my question is: can i get pregnant if me and my partner have sex in our clothes but he will still ejaculate his semen, and it goes through his clothes and when his clothes get wet from that w

I am a 18 year old girl. I had unsafe sex 7 days before my starting date of my periods. My periods have not yet started on date. Am i pregnant?. If i have my periods this time, then does that assure t

Hi, I am very uncomfortable by asking these questions. Are you supposed to shave your pubic hair? and this is my friend's question. she says that some of her private part is darker than the

Do you pee out of the same hole you put the tampon in?

Hi, this question concerns something that has bothered me for a little while. My girlfriend and I have been having sex and when I penetrate she is very tight and I end up ejaculating very soon. I wo

i'm 18 years old, and within the last few months have become sexually active with my boyfriend, we both lost our virginities to eachother so we are both new at the whole sexual relationship thing. i

I am wondering if it is possible if during a physical a doctor could find out if you are sexually active (even if it is a solo act) ? or if masturbation can cause any health problems

HI, I'M A 23 YEAR OLD MALE ..MY PROBLEM IS THAT WHEN I HAVE SEX WITH MY PARTNER IT BECOMES DIFFICULT FOR ME TO EYACULATE , SPECIALLY INTRA VAGINA EYACULATION???

It's pretty simple, really. I've been emailing a boy in England (16) and he admitted to me that he did not know what a hymen was. I sent him two links about hymens, but I couldn't find anything to r

How do I know that I gave GOOD oral sex ? When giving head...Is it ok for the guy to jack himself off while the girl sucks ???

since i was 11 years old i started masturbating .i masturbate daily till now i dont know how i can get free from that habit another ques is that as i was masturbate a lot my skin started wrinkling is

If I used the withdrawal method four days after my girl had her period, How long does sperm, that might have go out through the pre ejaculate liquid, last inside the girl? And what are the chances of

Dear Dr. Konstance McCaffree, I would appreciate very much if you can clarify me 2 questions: 1) What age in average do boys start masturbating? At 10, 12, 15 years old??? 2)Does the age of

Dear Dr. Konstance McCaffree I had lot of pain in my left testies from the past 7 days but now the pain has reduced. From the past few days i have noticed that i am passing loose motion & with with b

pain during sex when he pulls out and first enters

Dear Dr. McCaffree, I am an Allied Health program teacher (high school). Whenever I teach the unit on STD's, questions always arise about the history or origin of the diseases. This is my weak spot

This is not actually a problem but I'm hoping you could give some advice. I am a social worker who would like to pursue a career in the area of sexual health counselling. Could you recommend educati

I was wondering if it is possible to be sexual active with a girl who is on her period. Will she feel discomfort or anything like that? I was thinking things might be less messy in the shower or some

i am a student at a communtiy college and am taking a sex and sexuality class for sociology. If you could please reply to these questions, I would be grateful 1. Have you ever taught sexual educa

hi my primary concern is that that can a lot masturbation can effect the life after the marriage or in other words sexual relations.i am 191/2 year old guy and my dick size is alitlle less then 6

Hello, i'm 17 years old and I started to have sexual intercourse just a few days ago. The first time was ok and everything went perfectly: no pain, no big bleeding, etc... The second time I made lo

Hi im a 15 yr old male. I have a few questions about puberty: firstly a lot of my friends are a lot more sexually depeloped than me, and i can acept that because i know different people grow at differ

hi. I have a question about sex. I had sex with my boyfriend last week. We did it 2 times. At first we did used condom, but the second time no. I am afraid if I get pregnant but my boyfriend said tha

Ever since I was about 9 yrs old I have always ejaculated by rubbing my penis against a pillow so whenever I ejaculated, my penis was always standing straight up. After many years of doing this, now w

Comments: I would like to ask a questions, but I didn't know where to go and fill out the question thing. Anyways, my question is ok: I'm losing my virginity with this I really love and I know I m

I have yellow spots on my penis when i take an erection. They are not sore but annoying me. I am 14 and have had them for a while. Do you know wat they are and how i can get rid of them without goin t

My bestfriend was curious about my boyfriend's penis size (to compare to her bf's). First of all, I had no idea. So, I asked him and he said about 5 inches. I'm curious about how big is a "big penis"

Good day, this evening I experimented with mutual masturbation with my girlfriend. She made me orgasm, and while I cleaned myself up and am fairly sure my hands didn't come into contact with semen, I

My girlfriend ended her period a couple of days ago. We had sex first with a condom, but she was uncomfortable. We began to get dressed but then got back into it and had unprotected sex. I withdrew

hello the other night my girlfriend and i were having sex and i came inside her but i only left it in for like half the time so half of my "load" was on the sheets. she is on the pill but is there a c

I need to know why I can't orgasm and do not feel anything most of the time when my my partner is inside of me. I feel pain when it is inserted, and then the whole way through, I feel nothing. But,

Recently, my girlfriend ended one pack of contraceptive pills, had her period and on the seventh day, when she was supposed to start the new pack; se started a new pack but of a different brand of con

Any lubrication that comes from my vagina is absolutely sporadic. I am often very dry when having sex, even when I orgasm--if there is lubrication it is completely by chance. Occasionaly my vagina w

I have Mononucleosis, and i was just wondering if you can give your boyfriend oral sex, and him not get Mononucleosis?????

On the shaft of my penis there is a lump on one side. It is soft, squishy, and becomes more prominent when I have an erection. I know it's not an STD because I have had it since before I was sexually

I used to consume large amount of marijuana since i was 18. BOut 1 1/2 ears of extreme smoking. I stopped a couple of months ago. High amounts means average 5 blunts a week to 10 blunts a week. I had

Hi I had exprienced foreplay with my boyfriend for the first time and saw a little bit of blood comming from the vaginal opening after foreplay I know I don't have an infection but is there some way t

I am 15 and I think I am too horny. I am a christian and I read my bible daily. But I have been searching for scriptures about masturbating. And I masturbate and I just wonder if it's a sin. It feels

I also meant to say somehting else last time when I wrote. When I masturbate I don't insert my finger in my vagina I just rub my clitoris with my fingers. Someone told me that that isn't reall masturb

I am 17 and I have never ejaculated. Never in a wet dream, never through masturbation, never with a girl. I can get erections with no problem. Is there something wrong with me?

dear dr.Konstance McCaffree ; Is anal sex okay or not?doese it make any problem for the girls or not ? Is this kind of sex dangerous for their health or not ? thank you indeed

I gave my boyfriend oral sex and afterwards I realized that I had a soar inside my mouth, a cold soar. I was wondering if it is possible to pass this onto his penis or if I have nothing to worry abou

hi sir... i m a 20 year old boy ...i dont have any bad habbits like smoking or drinking...i have no problme in erections ..they are normal..but i dont know how to masturbate...never tried much ofr i

Dear Doctor McCaffree: I always read your answers. I want to tell you are great! The willingness to help people is wonderful, but you HELP people, and this is GREAT! Thank you so much for your effort

i am 18 and masturbate a lot (for the last 3yrs) and have had no real problem until recently where i can feel my penis and get erect but when i ejaculate i dont feel any pleasure, is this normal? will

ive been on the pill for around 4 months yet im also taking an antibiotic, yet for not serious conditions. i want to stop taking the antibiotic so i will have better protection from preganancy with th

I am a 19 year old m. single. I have never had sex with anyone . But every two or three days (average) I have wet dreams and I think that is too much.Should I visit a doctor? I am worried about that.I

hi thank you so much for your previouse answer I've asked you about anal sex and you've recomended me to use lubricant . what kind of lubricant do you recommend ? thank you indeed bye

Ok I have a few problems and I saw your websight and was hoping you might be able to help. First of all I'm a 20 year old female and my boyfriend of the past 7 months is 19. A few weeks ago when i wa

Hi Dr.McCafree, I am 17 years old and having problems getting "wet". I am not sexually active and do not plan to be until I am married. I have only been fingered by two guys but I find no pleasure i

on my right vaginal lip, there is a small red itchy bump. it hurts to rub. i am a virgin. i am really worried that it could be cancer or something. it has appeared before in other places. any ideas?

i want to know if there is a possibility that my female partner may get pregnant if we had sexual intercourse without any contraceptive methods but that i did not ejaculate in her vagina?

i am 17 years old, and i have a rather embarrasing question to ask. i have only masturbated a couple times, but i do not get any pleasure from it. my boyfriend also has tried to get me to have an or

what is precum? do all guys have it? does it happen everytime a guys has sex? does it contain sperm? how much? can a girl get pregnant from it? if a guy has never had sex before does that determine th

To whom it may concern, dr. i wanted to find out if my female partner had any possibility of getting pregnant i f i had sex with her without a condom during the ovulation period of her menstrual cycle

Hi i am a 16 year old male virgin. For some reason the end of my penis goes blue, the tips of the head, it goes away and comes back. I really take no notice of it but i was just wondering what it is?!

I have not been able to find any help for my problem, so I hope you can give me some direction. For the past couple of years, the skin of my vulva has been tearing with any pressure, even washing mys

Im 13 Im a virgin, and for the past couple of days Ive had very dark brown discarge and other times It is dark yellow and has a foul smell and Im very scared because Im worried that I could become inf

well,i am a bit obese!!i want to know that if i masturbate will i be able to overcome obesity or is this just a myth!!

A second grader who has a problem controlling masturbation during class time at school.

doc.... i have a black mark on my penis......its small and just on the upper part as soon as you roll down the foreskin......its there since birth....

I have been meandering through the net trying to find a definite answer to my question. The question is that "can sperm go through clothing". I notice that eventhough I'm wearing underwear AND tight-w

Hey, I'm 15 years old and my girlfriend is a few months younger than i am, not a large age difference,but i have a question about female teen orgasms. So far, i have given my g/f 4 fingerings for the

Could you please give me an idea as to how difficult intercourse is supposed to be? I'm not able to be penetrated,not even with artificial lube.Any attempt causes extreme pain/burning.My boyfriend say

I am a school nurse and I had emailed you before about a problem with a second grader that has been unable to control masturbation behavior during class time. This behavior has caused her to get behi

I am a school nurse with a Fifth grade student who has been harassed by fellow classmates b/c he is so feminine. He befriends only females and has very feminine mannerism. Mother has come to us conc

I have been sexually active for a few years, and right from the beginning i have been ejaculating very quickly, some times after only a few seconds. My girlfriends made the commit that I may be comin

I can not enjoy masterbating any moore. The skin on my penis is paper like skin. I can not masterbate very long with or with out some kind of cream or ky jally it fills good but drys up to soon? Can

How can i find out I am pregnet with out my parnets knowing? If i am pregnet can i get rid of it with out my parents knowing?

if you have unprotected sex, using the "pull out" method.. and you get your period about 4/5 days later.. is that a sure sign that you aren't pregnant? I've been feeling normal, and it's been about a

hi im a 16 yr old girl. im having a few problems with my current sexual partner, who is my second sexual partner. 1. his penis is a bit longer so sometimes its really painful, like its hitting someth

I have a problem. I hope this gets answered. Kind of the classic problem. Is there a way to augment the size of my penis? I'm 18, and assume/hope it will continue to grow. It is not terribly small, b

A neurologist has examined me and said I may have pudendal,nervi ergentes or other sacral nerve damage or other loss of function issues with my penis/scrotum. I've had both EMG and Nerve Conduction Te

My pre-teen grandson has started masteurbating. He does this in the living room covered in a blanket. I am looking for a way to talk to him about it without embarrassing him. I want him to know tha

can a woman get pregnant without actually having intercourse

Great site by the way - lots of information. Unfortunately, not much on what is on my mind. My question(s)relates to typical, standard or normal patterns in sexual behaviour. I know there is often n

Hello. I've recently found your website and thought I would ask a question. Here goes: About 6 months ago, I was in a mens restroom using one of the urinals and I was the only one there. I was usi

All I would like to do is to thank-you very much for taking the time out to answer my question. It felt better to know that someone out there might care, and listen and give me some advice. Although I

I had semen on the back of my hand, which i wiped off. Soon my hand was dry. Later on when I went to change my underwear, I touched near my vagina taking them off. I was wondering if it was possible f

my girlfriend is on the pill, for over a year now, and we just started having unprotected sex, last night, i think i might have ejaculated inside of her, could she be pregnant?

my girlfriend started her period on a wednesday and she is on birth controll,but also this whole week she has been on antibiotics for a cold ,and she heard from somewhere that when on antibiotics birt

A few nights ago my girlfriend and I were fooling around. We are both 17 and were trying new things. I had an erection and had reached down to "re-adjust" myself, noticing that my penis was wet on t

My girlfriend is unable to use contraceptives as this may cause problems with pregnancy later due to earlier problems. I produce a lot of precum and there is concern over whether she will become pregn

My boyfrien and I was going to have intercourse. this would be my first time. When he put his finger inside of me it really hurt. As long as he didn't move it went fine, but as soon as he moved the fi

Hello Konstance, I am working on a project to make sexual health information available to people with disabilities who use AAC (augmentative communication for people who can not speak). This is a popu

please. i think i am serously screwed up. as a baby, i had a hernia that went down into my scrotum. the doctors said i would be ok. i have been masterbating-orgasaming ending up with only a tinny drop

I have recently been diagnosed with mononucleosis. I am almost positive that my girlfriend will develop it, because we have been kissing intimately, and I hadn't known that I had it. My question is, a

I was wondering would guy who is circumsized last longer in bed than a guy who is not circumsized since the circumsized guy's penis head is not as sensitive?

is masturbation harmful in any way? I wanna stop..........what should I do?

Is it possible for my girlfriend to get pregnant by my pre-cum? We lay down like we have sex and I rub my penis on her clitoris. We know that my pre-cum lubes it up and gets all over her genitals. So

I'm a virgin, and have been masturbating externally (clitorally) for years now, with perfectly satisfying orgasms. Recently, though (since just about over a month), I have been having problems reach

I have once concern and one question, both id really like answered becuase its hampering my sexual desires and effecting me psycologicly. My main concern is that sometimes when i get an erection a sm

It is regarding my 15 year old daughter and how best to approach her sexuality as she has a steady boyfriend and I am very concerned about their relationship.

Hey, I once shaved my pubic hair and I couldnt walk for about a day because of the razor burn. Ever since then I have been to afraid to even trim the bad boys. They are getting out of control and I

hi, This question is not about me but my girlfriend. We have been having sex for about 6 months and have been going out for a year and in that time I have not been able to give her an orgasm and being

Hi, I've never had sex before and I really don't know much about it. My question is, is it normal to not be able to masturbate? I know it's a silly question, but I've tried masturbating before but I j

My girlfriend and I have been together for about 4 months and I'm crazy about her. But when we get to "messing around" it falls short. A physical relationship is not extremely important, but it's go

HI I AM 14 AND STILL HAVEN'T GOT MY PERIOD. IS THAT NORMAL. I ALSO GET CRAMPS REALLY BAD. THANKS FOR YOUR TOME.

I have Warts on my hands, fingers, pretty much all on my hands. i wanted to know if i were to and i have masterbated for my girlfriend, would she be able to get the warts as HPV's or genetal warts?

I lost my virginity to my girlfriend without a condom because she was on the pill. Im uncricumcised and when i was putting my penis into the vagina, i felt the skin stretching back like it should, but

My partner and I are wondering that if that is it possible to get a women preganant by using a condom twice. However, only if the male doesn't ejaculate at all. The reason why we're asking this ques

Okay My name is Mudas And I have been having some problems. First alot of people make fun of me when they find out I never had a guy go down on me. I think its nasty having somebody's tong down th

Hello just a quikie for ya, I am a 20 year old male and in just a few days my hottub will be fixed. During a conversation with my good friend and his girlfriend we got to talking about the huttub and

For a long while I've had these almost like pimples on the inside lips of my genital area, they are not painful or ichy. I have never had sex or oral sex. They are not reocurring they just stay. Wh

Sometimes when my boyfriend and I are making out, a little bit of his pre-cum comes through his pants. If I am lying on top of him, can I get pregnant? Can the sperm come through my underwear? I am

hi, i am only 15 and i am really starting to worry about myself... i am sexually active with my boyfriend, and just recently when we have had sex he would end up with blood on him. i do not know whats

My girlfriend (age 16) for the past couple days has had a welp/bump to the right side of her vagina, almost on the inner thigh, right on the panty line. She said it hurts bad. doesn't itch, or ooze.

I know that everyone says that the size of a mans penis does not matter but, I honestly want to know because I want to know what the situation is. What is the average size of a man's penis?

I got on birth control (Orthotricyclen) 4 years ago and have recently made the decison to get off the pill. Actually it has been 5 months since I discontinued the use of the pill. Since then, I have

WHEN ME AND MY FIANCE HAVE SEX AND EVEN A DAY OR TWO AFTER, A SMELL ACCOMPANIES. IS IT NORMAL TO HAVE A SMELL ON OUR GENITALS? AND IF SO WHAT IS NORMAL? THE SMELL IS NOT SOMETHING THAT I CLASSIFY A

I'm nineteen years old and sexually active. I have never experienced an orgasm. I have tried masterbation, sex toys, etc. but still have never even come close to climax. I have very little clitoral

Hi, I'm fifteen years old and I'm unsure about my sexual orientation. I've always liked men, however, there are some things that have led me to believe that I may be bisexual. For example, pictu

I am a teenager and was just curious on wether you could get hiv/aids through sexual fluids aswell as blood ? if this is so does that mean you can get hiv/aids through doin such activities as giving s

hello dr. i started masturbation till 13 and doing till today.i also have suffered from depression for three yrs and dropped my studies. i got depressed due to masturbation guilty and weekness.now i

I would like to know what is the church's view on mansturbation. Does the church consider mansturbating as a bad thing? Thank you.

Ok, I'm an 18 year old male and have had a hard time getting an erection when I'm with a girl. I know I'm not gay or anything, I am very attracted to women, but I have developed a major performance a

I am currently a college student at one New York City's universities. I am not sure if you are the person i should be directing this email to, but maybe you would be able to give me some assistance w

Me and my partner are both virgins. She plans on using birth control pills, or a birth control needle shot.

We plan on having oral sex, and normal sex, but no anal. We are confident that we ar

I'm 15 and I had sex for the first time last night. I'm pretty sure that my hymen ripped because it hurt and bled a little, and there's a new flap of skin. A little above the flap of skin, there's a

my penis have bent a bit and the viens are visible

Why do i experience pain if intercourse is continued after i orgasm?

i cant seem to reach a climex when haveing sex with my husband i be wanting to reach a climex sooo bad that i get mad at my husband I stay mad all of the time. I be wanting my husband touch me hold me

ok.... um.... i really love my girlfriend.... haven't been so happy in my life.....and i am absolutely comfortable with her..... but i have a problem with becoming nervous when we are about to have se

Hi... thanks in advance for answering my question. I would like to ask regarding what is the best day to have intercourse and ejaculate inside my partner without her getting pregnent. I understand tha

Im 16...and i had protected sex around April 10th or something and i had just gotten over my menstral cycle and he said he didnt finish so that was good....and i was scared i wasnt gonna get my period

Yes im a 16 year old male. I have had not much experience but ive had girls want to do stuff with me but i wasnt ready and i was wondering how do you finger bang a girl and how do you eat a girl out b

My girlfriend and I are both virgins, and we will not have sex until we are married. I just had a question about female anatomy. A while back, we were getting physical with each other a bit. I touc

ok, here's the deal... me and my girl have been sexual active for about 4 months now, we're both 16, her birthday is 3 days after mine actually, but anyway, I am her 1st sexual partner, and shes like

I have been masterbating for about 2 years now and I am ashamed of it. I am 15 years old now and I do not wish to continue it whatsoever. I am afraid that it is bad for me, as in future affects. I

my g/f and i are both virgins. but we've done other things. mostly oral. i was wondering does consuming boidly fluids have any negative affects on the body?

im a virgin and using withdrawal method, my partner tell me that he withdraw the sperm cell but im afraid for getting a pregnant... my last period is may 9 and we intercourse last may 29 its almost 21

Can you be a virgin and still get pregnant?

After masturbation, it often hurts to go to the toilet (urinate). I feels like it's there but doesn't want to come, and hurts when it does. It doesn't hurt before or after it though.

My question is related with my daugther behavor she is 5 years old and usually musturb herselve . She knows is somethin private and is not wrong. today my dog has puppies and while the dog was in the

hello, i am 15 years old, i never had sex before but i masturbait about twice a week and i have this oder comming from my vigina... i shower daily if not 2 times a day but with in 2 hours i can smell

i have a friend who's only 16, but is sexually active...i was wondering if there are any physical risks involved in having sex that young.thank you for your time.

Im 14. One time I was watching pornography with a friend and we started masturbating. Later on he asked if he could see my penis and then go down on it with his mouth once. I reluctantly let him. Afte

After sex I am thoroughly drained for two days afterwards. I feel extreme anxiety for at least 24 hours afterwards and am very irritable. It also affects my brain as well - I am unable to concentrat

Lately I have been getting skin rashes after, during fooling around with my girlfriend. (We aren't having sex.)

Well, these rashes (small bumps) started appearing on my body a few weeks ago. I

I am a 16 year old gyrl and I jus had sex for the first time on Monday...and we didn't have a condom. He pulled out early or whatever...and I started to get my period that night...but is there any cha

I am 16 and just yesterday my period ended and I had sexual intercourse for the first time. Now it is the day after and I have been bleeding alot from my vagina, especially when i go to the bathroom.

Recently, my penis has had an increase in the white pasty stuff that appears under the foreskin, and the tip of my penis has become red and sore. Could this be cause by a lubricant (such as baby oil)

My girlfirend and I have been together for three years and have been unable to have sex. we have been trying consistently for the duration of our relationship, but fail each time because it is too pa

Im a young female experiencing a problem in stimulation of the clitoris. It is said that most orgasm are reached by stimulation of the clitoris but ive tried everything but just touching it seem to hu

Hi, i just wanted to ask you if there is a high risk of me being pregnant. I just got over my period today it bleed just a little today and my boyfriend and i had sex with a spermicidal condom but it

I have sexual intercourse and it goes well. Now after my last intercourse part my vigina has torn some skin. It hurts every once in a while. Is this a serious problem should i be worryed?

I'm in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend and have been for 2 years. Recently, i came home from college and we're having trouble during intercourse. It seems like my "hole" has gotten smal

me and my partner never actually had intrecorse but we did have our reprodutive organs next to each oter when he ehaculated im i or can i get pregnet?

I'd like to say, not in anger but, you gave advise to a boy who asked if masterbation was a sin in the bible. I'm sorry if I misspell something. Your answer was no, but I have a problem with masterbat

Sometimes, like 10 to 20 minutes, after i do things with a girl like mutual masturbation i have pains in my testicles and my friends call it "blue balls" it feels like lumps of something within my scr

Hello, just a quick concern and a couple of questions here. I've been with my girlfriend for quite some time, we would both like to enjoy sex with each other but she is really concerned about unwa

Failure to ejaculate.

i am a 19 year old boy. i do my studies in india.i am very succesfull in my studies and i am doing my life well. But there is one problem which has been in my mind for years. when i was a child (about

First off, Dr. McCaffree I would like to thank you for reading my question. I am a 19 year old female with a problem. I have for as long as I remember decided to abstain from sex til I get married. I

I recently came very close to dying. A wake-up call. Even though I am 40, I am a virtual sexual novice. It made me re-evaluate my sexual life. I realized that I have never experienced sex as a "wh

My b/f fingered me and i found it painful and i bleed is this normal?! and if i have pain from this then i wont be able 2 have sex!

I'm 15 and I'm at least 100 pounds overweight. I've noticed that I've missed at least 4 periods in a row and I'm not pregnant. I also read that it could be due to physical activity, but volleybal

I had an oral sex with my girlfriend and when i reached my orgasm and ejaculation on the outside surface vigina. After that, she quickly go to wash with water. i would like to know is she will have ch

Hello. I really need you to answer my question. i'm 15 years old and i have not yet had my period. for about a year now, i tend to secrete a white gooey substance. is this an early sign of my period?

Hi, I have a question. I have been on Depo-Provera for about two years now, and I've decided to stop. My shot is due Aug. 5th, but I am not sure if I am covered all the way up until that time. I know

I have got engaged and since then when my fiance (boy) says anything emotional to me or touches me, My vagina got wet and I dont feel comfortable, it really irritates me. What should I do? Should I us

My friend and I wear chatting the other day about guys and their genitalia. Well we seemed a little off on our ideas so i wanted to ask someone who would know. I was wondering if it is necessary for g

WHAT IS THE OLDEST AGE A MALE CAN BE WHEN HE GETS CIRCUMSIZED?

I have abnormalities with my testicles which I belive is related to it being very had to ejaculate. One seems heavier than the other and both are covered in goosebump like spots all the tme. The hair

The first time a female has sex it is said she is supposed to bleed. But, when we did for the first time she didn't.. The term "popping the cherry" what is it supposed to mean? Where is it's location

The first time me and my partner had sex the first few seconds hurt she claimed.. but after that she could feel me, but i couldnt hardly feel her.... Help me please!!!!

Hello I am in my early 20s and i have a healthy sex life but i have never been able to ejaculate even when i have reached a climax and i only reach climax when i have clitrous stimulation i have exper

Hi. I know that this isn't a real problem, but I was wondering: my boyfriend always says that his penis is small and stuff like that. It doesn't really matter if his penis is small, because i really

WELL I WANTED TO KNOW I WAS TAKING THIS SHOT OF BIRTH CONTROL YECCIONS I HAVE BEEN ON THE SHOT FOR 2 YRS NOW BUT LAST AUGUST OF YR 01 I STOP THE YECCION I BEEN OFF FOR 1 YR. NOW AND IM WORRY THAT WHEN

Dear Dr.Konstance McCaffree,

I have browsed your answers and decided to ask your professional opinion regarding the two cases in my life. I apologize in advance for the details, but I need your

I am 25 and i have not had a pap done. My cycles have been irregular since I began. As I get older my cycle skips 3 or 4 months. Once when my mother died I skipped 6 months. I am scared of hearing

Dear Dr. Konstance McCaffree:

I apologize - one more question regarding my 2 cases in the school:

Can some negative consequences for my sexual health (happy sexual life) be as a result

Hi..... im 16 years old and i noticed near my vigina opening there is some loose skin, like a very little strand. I am wondering if its because of masterbation and if its normal and will it go away!?

I've been with my partner for a year and sexually active just as long. I was wondering if it is true that I may be 30 before my first sex-related orgasm. My mom told me it is possible but I've been wi

Me and my girl had "outercourse" less than last sunday the 4th. We BOTH had jeans and underwears on. After I ejactuated (inside my underwear) while rubbing AROUND where her vigina would be, my girl t

Dear Dr. Konstance McCaffree:

May I ask more two questions regarding my two cases of masturbation in the school which I described you recently? I have read your explanations many times. You cann

My wife is 32 yrs old (I'm 44 yrs. old). She is in her sexual prime, but is having problems with her sexual desire and sex drive - there is none. She has been diagnosed as having Hashimoto's disease

I was just wondering the average time of intercouse, like how long it usually lasts?

hi i have been with my boyfriend for a year now and we are getting very physical. my partner wants 2 please me by caressing my clitoris. however i am finding it hard to figure where it is myself!there

Hello ,I am a 22 aged male...It is very important for me to know whether mastribution afect our health,I am person who mastribute 2 or 3 in a week.I have a problem with my chest..it is really becoming

I have 3 red spots down in my vagina area...they hurt to touch...and i have been feeling sick latley if that has anything to do with it. Do u have any idea what it could be?

I have a question...I have 3 red spots down in my vigina area...the hurt to touch...and i have been feeling sick latley if that has anything to do with it. Do u have any idea what it could be?

DEAR MADAM, HI,I AM 17 YEARS OLD MALE FROM INDIA.I HAVE BEEN MASTURBATING FROM 2 YEARS NOW.AS I HEARD EXCESSIVE MASTURBATION LEADS TO PROBLEMS IN SEX LIFE AND OTHER WEAKNESS..PLEASE MADAM I WA

I'm straight and have some gay friends and I'm very concerned about their sick behavior! They keep telling they are getting anal sex from a dog! I told them to stop doing that, but they don't listen t

Hi I am currently doing a survey of youth-orientated computer-based educational-resources in sexual health and would be grateful if you could help me. It is part of a preliminary stage in a two ye

Hi. Please help. Well i have many questions. well first is if i done cum on my hand and finger my g/f is there anyway that she can get pregnant? my second question is since we both are first timers

I masturbate and just before i come i get this horrible pain a pinching pain on the top of my head into my ear/jaw and then as soon as i come it subsides abit ...but i keep the headache until i take

How long does it take the sperm to get the female egg??

Hey. I have a question about the chances of pregnancy without intercourse. I did read the FAQ's page before writing this e-mail, but wanted to know a few more specifics. My boyfriend and I have bee

Irregular period?

My girlfriend is quite short. She has to be drunk to have sex with me because she says that my penis is too big for her. She is obsessed with measuring it and tells all her friends that its 9 inches l

I am getting paranoid (OR MORE LIke I am terrified) about sperm. Like today I used a public toilet and i was scared to death of what if sperm got on me from the toilet seats. The extent of my parano

Can i just say that I dont why but as i read your reply to my question about terrified sperm I started crying because for the first time i felt like someone else understood what i was talking about.

Hi, im writing to you because i have a problem. my problem is that the foreskin on my penis itches alot. and so does the skin inside. do you know what may be causing the itching. can you tell me wat

What is normal sperm count per ml. What is sperm motility and what is its normal range?

Is it harmful for me, an 18 year old female, to have sex with a 32 year old male?

I wrote a couple of days ago asking if it is harmful for me,an 18 year old female, to have sex with a 32 year old male. What I meant by "harmful" was if it could be harmful physically, like tear it up

Please I need your help...my girlfriend and I did something. I put my penis into her vagina, but did not "cum" or anything, just stuck it in and moved around, nothing happened at all. I didn't "pop

Before I had my hysterectomy(at age 26)i didn't know if i was having an orgasm or not.now after 10 years i am having difficulty with lubrication and still am not sure if what i am experiencing is a "n

Hi I am a 17 year old girl and i have 2 clitorises! am is this common or am i a freak? with this change my sexual pleasure when i become sexualy active? PLEASE HELP!

Hi, my significant other and I are not sexually active but I am a bit unclear about the possibility of pregnancy even without intercourse. Specifically, I was wondering if there was any chance that p

I'm not sure if you will be able to give me the answer that I'm looking for, but any info that you might possess will be most appreciated. Let me start off by saying that I've only had 3 stable, ong

Does precum contain sperm?

Hi, I am writing in regards to the question i asked the other day, i have realised that i dont have 2 clitorises which is a load off my mind, they are just 2 bits of skin on each side of my clitoris?

Lately (2 weeks) my girlfriend and i have been having sex and i am only able to last a couple of minutes (two at most) then i come. it is upseting both of us. I have never incounted this before.

I am married for almost 4 yrs now. I have a wonderful husband who I dearly love. But for the past year, I seem to lack sexual desire. Lately, I really just don't have the desire to make love with my h

I had sex with a girl on friday, and later that day, I felt like I always had to pee, however very little urine came out, and my penis sort of tingles. Is this a symptom of an STD, if so I thought tha

My problem is that I regularly watch porn and maturbate while watching it and spend hours on the internet and inspite i don't want to do so but i can't control it please suggest me some way i can get

This is a question requarding the size and girth of my partner : I recently just had sex with. We waited quite awhile to have sex and when we finally did it was very painful because he is huge. I was

I would Like to know what a colposcopy is and how do you pronouce it correctly?

Is overmasturbation a serious problem? I am a 16 year old suffering from unexplainable receeding hair and a few sites claim over masturbation can be a cause (http://www.herbolove.com/article.asp?art=6

i USUALLY SEX WITH MY WIFE BUT I SEE I INTERCOURSE WITH HER 3 TIMES COUNTINOUSLY BUT WHEN I DOING INTERCOURSE I INJECT MATERIAL WITH IN 1 1/2 MINUTES SO PLZ TELL ME IF I AM NORMAL THEN TELL ME AND IF

How do you get an orgasm alone without a partner, sex toys, pills, or anything except you and your body?

Hello Dr, My problem is that i use to masturbate too often 4 to 6 times a week on every day or with a day gap in between in each ejaculation I have read in your archieves that the more often a pe

Hi! I have a problem. I started to masturabte at the age of 9-10 it was my way of exploring body. But then I did not give up it and I was doing it sometimes. I started doing it more frequently (even

Hi, I have a concern about my sperm. Lately whenever I masturbate and ejaculate you can see tiny yellow/brownish spots in the sperm. They are really tiny and are jelly like. I'm really worried abo

Hi, I'm 12, and i'm still a virgin, but i have masterbatted. I'm in the 7th grade, and for the sex education week, a girl asked a question about "popping the cherry". When my female teacher answered t

i have serveral question. I get ejaculation very fast. I think i am sex addictive. Even in my dream i ejaculate. When i am with my girl friend, if my girl do oral sex with my penis hard ;especiall

I was wondering if i should get circumsised or not because iv heard that i should and that i dont need to. im want to kno that when i have sex will me being uncut effect anything? and how come when i

Hello doctor i have a problem i have done masturbate 4 years age now my penis is short and weak and also i am weak i take very medicine of herbal,homeopathic use vetpump please tell me any right penis

after sex, how long to check if pragnent or not? what is the best method to check. thanks

i have two questions and would like for this to remain confidential PLEASE just respond to my e-mail and do not post my e-mail address. 1-i have this discharge that comes out of me every so often.

My question is that I always ejaculate whenever i masturbate, i have never been in a relationship. Whenever i begin masturbation as soon as the first drop of precum start to come out of my penis i hav

Dear Dr. Konstance McCaffree: Thank you so much for your great expertise and time. May I ask you to send an article on masturbation against a pillow which you indicated. Once again, thank you so muc

I have recently discovered I am pregnant but am also concerned that I may have warts. I have small bumps on labial lips but no where else and they can be itchy at times.My husband shows no visible sig

I have been married less than a year and have an extremely low sex drive. I can go 3 weeks with out sex and be fine and my husband is climbing the walls. I am extremely frusterated with this, as is he

Dear Doctor Konstance McCaffree:

May I ask you a question? Is masturbatory method by friction a penis against a pillow considered a normal, healthy masturbatory technique for boys and men? How c

Hello, well here it goes...On Sep.8th, i awoke at one of my friends houses and discovered one of his friends rubbing his penis on my vagina. As soon as i realized what was going on, i ran to the bathr

I have been masturbating for a long time now, but my problem is....When i was younger(before i masturbated)my periods were normal.When i started masturbating my periods started skipping.If I masturbat

In an earlier reply, you said that sperm cannot "cling" to shoes, and that if seman was on the pavement, it couldn't cling unto shoes if anyone stepped in it. WHY CAN'T SPERM CLING TO SHOES? Doe

I have found a small lump on my penis and i was just wandering what this could be it is on the outside of my foreskin and it ooze's a white puss like liquid when sqeezed i have had sex but only with o

I heard you on NPR on Friday, June 20, 2003. The host of the show referred to you as a 'certified' sexual expert, which I do not doubt. But it got me thinking, who certified you, where would one take

Recently me and my girlfriend have been intimate with each other, but both of us are still virgins. Three days ago, I was wearing cotton underwear, and she was wearing cotton shorts and nylon panties

Dear Doctor Konstance McCaffree,

If I may ask you, please tell me if the questions about the age, when adolescent masturbation began, and the length of the period of the adolescent masturbati

Dear Dr. Konstance McCaffree:

I appreciate very much your expertise. May I ask you two question? Both of them are similar, but one question relates to the adolescent period and another one - to

My erection is curved downwards(me looking down at my penis). why does it occur and what can be done to fix it?

Dear sir I m from Pakistan a homosexual person (gay) In this December I m going to marry, I cant avoid my marriage at any cost due to custom and social problem in this country. Please tell me how can

When my boyfreind and I play he says he can feel something with his fingers inside of me.. He says it feels like the thing in the back of your throat. It feels very different when he touches it... not

Why did Placebo patches appear to increase sex drives, and what is the function of testosterone in both sexes.

Hello.. I am taking birth control.ortho-tri-cyclen-28 and i have been for about almost 2 yrs now. It was always come on the green pills on tuesday and its done by saterday.. I had5 light blue pills le

I have had bleeding for the past 5 days.. very little but dark in color almost brown. I am on birth control and only went with out a condom once since my last period. Ive had speratic cramps with this

Before my boyfriend fingers me, as an extra precautionn he uses anti-bacterial hand sanitizing gel (the new Purell stuff) to clean his fingers of any sperm that *may* be on them (though he normally do

my girlfriend took my penis and rubbed against her glans, prepuce, and labia minora area for about 1 minute. I was afraid if that might cause pregnancy because we had sex an hour or two before(with a

I have read on many websites that sperm is not present in precum when the urethra is flushed by urination. However, other websites do not mention this fact. I would just like to know the truth, how is

Recently my wife missed one of her birth control pills. I was wondering how missing the pill effects how well it works.. Also, we dont like using condoms and have heard that when used correctly, pulli

Hi, Recently I found out that I contracted the Herpes virus. I went to the doctor for a check up because I had little tiny bumps on the vulva of my vagina. As soon as the doctor looked at it she sa

Sorry for asking such a dumb question but I am very scared of what happened. Me and my bf were kinda kissing and he started to get excited. I touched him down there on his underwear and I got some pre

I don't know if you recieved my first e-mail but incase you didn't here is my question. I touched my bfs undies which had some fresh PRECUM on it. So I then went off to wash my hands with soap and wa

I was making out with my boyfriend pretty intensely but we both had our clothes on. He had on shorts (and underwear i am assuming) and i was wearing my underwear and shirt. I had my legs wrapped aro

REVISED:

I was making out with my boyfriend pretty intensely but we both had our clothes on. He had on shorts (and underwear i am assuming) and i was wearing my underwear and shirt. I had my

Thank you so very much for your reply. I am not sure if you received my revised email cuz i did have a couple more questions on that.

Anyways, if i recall correctly, it was the following:

Dear Dr. McCaffree,

I have read some of your replies to questions that are similar to mine, but I have been completely stressing myself out over this. Eight days ago, I was lying in bed with my

My question is on sperm survival. If I ejaculate at night around 9pm and I get seman on myself but I try to wipe it all off with a towel, what are the chances that any of the sperm from that ejacu

So sorry but its me again.

you said that sperm can't get thru clothes. but lets assume he was not wearing his shorts.

let say for a moment that we were both ONLY in our underwears literal

Hello:

I am trying to find out the chances of getting a girl pregnant from dry humping. I have read many, many articles on this, yet none have really specified percentages, etc. In addition, an

Is is true that increased masterbation can create longer stamina during sexual intercourse? I've come to realize that during oral sex, I go off in like three minutes or less, but during intercourse I

Hi i just have one more question! Okay say me and my boyfriend were dy humping for a little bit, but i forgot i had a good sized hole right where my vagina is, but we were only dry humping for like a

I a worried about almost everything I do sexually, I always wonder if there is away I could get pregnant if I do certain things. Ever since I had sex (one time and only once) I've been worried about g

I'm writing you because something unexplainable has been annoying me and making me unhappy lately, I was hoping you could help. I turned 15 last week . About a week ago I was a perfectly happy heteros

Thanks for such a quick answer. I was happy eating ice cream everyday, if you know what I mean, because I had a goal in life that ( amongst others ) was to have a pleasurable sex life with a beatiful

Me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom. We didn't have one and we didnt' want to kill the moment. so we decided to have sex but when he was about it cum to pull out. so he did. I'm worried to th

I mean I wouldn’t need masturbation because it was as if sex didn’t exist at all. Anyway, it feels awfull, it’s like I have a shell around me, since that day I feel like I won’t be able to love a wome

Orgasmic disorder and low sex drive

I have hair on my penis , can u tell me is it normal to have hair on my penis ? i have hair not on my head but on the the stem of my penis. can u tell me is it ok for me to shave my hair from there? o

Hello, More or less my profile states my problem. It is inability to orgasm during sex, but can achieve orgasm thru masturbation. My partner and I love each other a lot. but we have had stressful t

1.Am I right in assuming it is fine and 0% risk of pregnancy after you have sex and ejaculate into a condom while inside the vagina, and then insert my penis again later without cleaning? The sperm w

Hello, I have asked you a few questions before but i have a few more to ask you! I sent you two e-mails but that was probably about 2 or 3 weeks ago so i'm going to try again because i really need you

I just wanted to ask about a statistic. How often do teenage boys have an erection? I've heard varying numbers from once every two hours to once every five. I just wanted to check with you to see i

Hi, sorry I couldn't answer you back earlier. So ,you think that finding women less apealing and exciting and all those problems will go away with time and I'll be like I was before in my attitude tow

Why does my penis point downwards when i have an erection, and will it be hard to have sex with a girl.

I would just like to thank you for your reply to my earlier question. Soon after you replied I got my period. I have one more question to bother you about, I've heard about spotting in females that

After ejaculation, how long (MAXIMUM AMOUNT OF TIME) can sperm survive outside the body and still remain viable to cause pregnancy if introduced into the vagina?

Thanks for your earlier response. To add to the last question in your records, orgasm has been elusive for me ever since we started having sex regularly. Though I must mention that sex has been pleasu

Me and my girlfriend had unprotected sex (I did not ejaculate during or after sex, although I had pre cum). I got worried and then found out we did this a day before she was due to start ovulating. I'

My girlfriend and I just recently started having sex together. But when we have i've been getting what look like friction burns on my penis or some type of allergic reaction to her. I wanted to know i

My foreskin can only retract to the back of the glans. My foreskin is stick together with 2 skin on both the upper and lower side of the glans. May i know what are these? What can i do to retract my f

I think I have a paranoia problem. Every time my boyfriend and I engage in sexual activity (everything except intercourse), I get paranoid about whether I have become pregnant or not. This is even i

Sorry again for bothering you but you seem to be the only person that knows their stuff that I know of. So once again I would really appreciate it if you can help me out here. I told you awhile back

Respected mad'm I am in addiction of frequently mastrubing duirng my sleeping times. i am not able to control my sexual desires due to which i am very concenred whether it has any effect on body as i

Hi I've been searching around the net and I was wondering if the flu/cold can throw off a girl's period. As in make it lighter and shorter. Thank you =)

Hi, i have to thank you sooo much for all the questions you have answered for me, it really makes me sooo happy that you understand me and help me out so much! I appreciate everything you do! But i do

I have no words that can describe how nice you've been to me =). You didn't get annoyed of me after all these questions, I really appreciate that. Well I do have a couple of more questions and that

Sorry I just had to add something. I told you that I didn't know if my bf ejaculated earlier or not right? Well he doesn't remember either but he told me that if he did it would've been around 2 hou

I am so so so sorry for writting you a third e-mail instead of just one. But I forgot to tell you that my light period lasted around 3 days only. It went from the brownish stuff to a light red after

Hi Dr, I'm just wondering something as i was looking through your archive of questions. If I was wearing underwear and jeans and my girlfriend was wearing underwear, is it safe to assume that if i ha

Thank you so much for your help doctor, it takes a lot of stress off of me. I am a very paranoid person as you can probably tell by now. I just have too much in front of me to get pregnant at my age

Ok here's what is up... My girlfriend and I were making out and she wanted to have sex... She has been on the pill for five months, but recently missed about 5 days in a row.. she then got back on the

Hi, I was wondering if you sit on a chair with semen (fully clothed) and if the semen gets on your thigh (really high up) can sperm somehow swim up to your vagina and get you pregnant? Can it swim thr

Hi Doctor I know you told me not to worry anymore and I've been doing so. But I was wondering if bloating (stomach feeling full) is a sign of pregnancy. But I don't have any other symptoms (IE nause

I know this sounds kind of stupid by I haven't been able to stop thinking about it, and I would really apreciate your help. The other day I was riding on the bus and this women next to me stood up to

I'm in my 20s so having sexual drive is not a problem. Just about 2 months ago I was able to keep my erection up for a long time, infact I was teased for being up all the time. Lately I have been ha

i am masterbating for past 5 years.i really feel ashamed.i have no bad habits other than this. i want to stop this.will anybody help me.i beg u.plz help me.

I'm a 22 year old, healthy, intelligent college student who is ashamed of her sexual past. Not just ashamed, but disappointed and scared. I've had sex with 14 people and only 2 of them were boyfriends

Hello again, How are you doing? I have a somewhat odd question. i am going on a trip with my b/f and was wondering what are the chances of becoming pregnant by sleeping in the same bed with him (ju

If a man has sex with a woman and after ejaculating inside the vagina, some sperm/seman spills out of the woman's vagina, and onto the sheets, could that sperm/seman remain viable after a few hours a

How long can sperm/seman survive on the roadway, and if a girl accidently stepped on the seman/sperm with her shoes, and later accidently touched the bottom of her shoes, and somehow got it into he

I just want to ask for the causes of bleeding after sexual foreplay with my boyfriend. My usual position is on his top, rubbing our genitals for more than 30 minutes that also resulted pain to my hips

I'm 14 years old and I commonly get erections during school. These accur about 3-5 times a class and sometimes more. I am not thinking about anything sexually or that would arouse me. It makes it hard

Hi doctor it's me again. Sorry to bother you again I feel pretty bad about it. I got some good news and that is my period came this month. But the question is that it came on day 20 since my last p

Is it possible to get a girl pregnant if I had sex with her on her 1st day of her menstrual cycle?

What is the shortest amount of time (in days) can a girl's cycle be and still ovulate in that c

My boyfriend and I weren't wearing any clothes and I began rubbing my vagina (clitoral area, not the vaginal opening) on the lower part of his penis (near the testicles) away from the head of his peni

I know there are no guarantees in life, but I want to know if there are any possibilities whatsoever that sperm could survive the following: If I had sex with my wife at 8:30pm (she is already pregn

Thank you so much for your response to my question (http://www.sexualhealth.com/questions/read.cfm?ID=2852). My boyfriend and I have a very open and loving relationship and I've talked to him about ho

I'm not sure that I've ever had an orgasm. Does that mean that I haven't? I seem to reach a sexual plateau, rather than a peak, and when I'm tired of being there, I "push" myself into an orgasm. Or I

QUESTION: HI. I AM 21 YEARS OLD, MY PROBLEM IS THAT I WAS AND AND ALWAYS WERE A PREMATURE EJACULTOR EVEN I MASTURBATE REGULARLY OR I DO IT TOO FREQUENT. AS THIS P.E ALWAYS BEEN A PROBLEM FOR ME I EJA

I'm a 15 year old girl. My boyfriend and I have had sex twice. It was not my first time but it hurt a lot. Why is that? My second problem is he said he felt he was hitting something that he didn't

Why does a man wake up in the morning with an erection?

I have very low sex drive and in contrast, my husband has very high sex desire. I cant have sex more than once a day since I feel very painful during intercourse. How can I solve my problem?

About a month ago my boyfriend was a little rough with me (sexually not violently), and I developed a bruise on my breast which healed very slowly. However, just as that one bruise seemed to heal on m

Madam, I'm 25 years old and i've been married for three and half years already.We have been trying so hard but i'm having difficulty with conceiving for all these years.My periods are irregular.I got

I'm a 18 yr old guy and i have never been sexual active but i have tiny little bumps on my penis are they a disease.

In your archived responses, you have mentioned a possibility that pre-ejaculate fluid contains sperm. However, you have also decidedly stated that pre-ejaculate does not contain sperm unless there wa

How do I know when am I ovulating?

Thanks for answering my previous question. How much lower would sperm count be in a second ejaculation that occurred within an hour, or perhaps a half hour, of the first? Is this below the threshold

I've read every single question in your archive, but I still can't find the peace of mind I need to stop obsessing. I think I am absolutely driving my boyfriend up the wall and I'm making myself sick

Hello Dr.! I know many people have probably asked this question, but I want to know when does precum contain sperm? If a man had an ejaculation 15 hours ago and he urinated at least once, are there an

Is there anyway whatsoever that after being ejaculated outside the male body, sperm/seman can survive in the outside environment such as carpets or the ground for more than three days and still rem

I have been married 7 months but have not been able to feel aroused or been able to have penetrative sex as it is too painful...I was looking forward to the sexual part of my life as I remained a virg

Hi, I am a 16 years old male and I have a problem with masterbation. I have been masterbating almost daily for a few years now. It is difficult to stop and I want to ask you is this harmful? And what

Hello, i just want to thank you for all the previous answers you've given me in the past, they've been really helpful! I've been pretty good lately, but now i have a situation i'm a little worried abo

I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time last night. I was on the second day of my period, we used a condom and it did not break (tested it afterwards), but neither of us reached orgasm. My boyf

Ack! So sorry! He he, didn't see that this was the place to ask the question! I do have two questions, but first a thank you to the people of this message board, the doctors, researchers, writ

If someone had a wank in a swiming pool or bath could a woman get pregnent?

Little spunk. I have little seman come out of me when I wank is this normal?

Hellow Dr.! I think that I have very less sexual power but I feel insecure and I am determined to increase my sexual power, please can you help.

My girlfriend and i were fooling around the other night and during her givign oral sex on me I was touching my penis. I know I did not get actual semen on my hands but there could have been the possi

I have been reading some of the responses you and some of the other experts on here have given about pre-ejaculation and pregnancy. My girlfirend and I are both over the age of 20 i 24 and she 21. w

If a guy has fingered you and he breaks the skin in the virgina, does that mean she has lost her virginity? *Ex: When you have sex with a guy and the penis penatrates the skin of the vagina than that

Hello again Doctor McCaffree.

I'm writing back to thank you for your answering my earlier questions about pre-cum and sexual education materials last month. Sure enough - my girlfriend had he

If I had sex with a female and about 8 hours later she has her period (normal and on time), can she still get pregnant from that episode of sex?

I recently had sex for the first time. We didn't use a condom and I am not on the pill yet. I was very close to getting my period and he withdrew before ejaculating in me. We communicated about it

Hi there this is my first time asking a question and i'll try to make it as clear as possible. Here's the situation, recently my girlfriend gave me a hand job and i ejaculated semen, the fluid did not

If I had sex with my girlfriend on day 1 of her cycle, and fourteen days later she takes a home pregnancy test and it is negative, and five days later (day 20 of her cycle), she takes another test

Hi there doctor, i have an urgent matter and i really need your help because I do not know who to turn to right now. Here's the situation - My girl friend and I were naked and we were fooling around.

Hi. 2 weeks ago, I had went to a 'massage parlor'. After a 45 minute rigorous massage, I got the happy ending as they call it (handjob). During this, the outside of my anus was slightly massaged with

I am a 37 year old female and my menstrual cycles are usually 28-29 days. But recently, the cycles have been off. For the last 3 months, it's been about 30-31 days long, and my last period only la

Hey, I had sex for the first time about 3 days ago and Im 19 years old. My partner and I had sex unprotected and I been looking over your other responces in relation to the question I have. We were ha

For the past few days I've been reading the other Q + A's regarding my same basic concern but, selfishly, still consider my situation to be "unique," and therefore seek "unique" information.

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I wanted to know what the chance of getting pregnant is if I was in the shower with my boyfriend and we had soap all over our body but he touched my vagina with his penis for a second. I'm not sure

Dr. McCaffree:

My concern is about my girlfriend's menstrual cycle. I consider it to be really long: 40 days mostly. Is this normal? I also would like to know if women always experience pre mens

I work with a special needs student who is suffers from mild MR. She was sexually abused from the ages of 6 to 12. She is now 15 years old and feels as if she is addicted to sex. She claims to have

What are the itchy uncomfortable bumps on my balls?

I have two questions. First is - last night my boyfriend and I had sex twice using a condom. My period had ended 2 days before. My boyfriend didn't reach orgasm either time, and afterwards we checked

I was wondering can a woman get pregnant without intercourse, and are there cases of such incidents?

Am 22 male, I have been facing a problem from last few days. Whenever I urinate, the last drops of urine contain some white color of urine. I am worried about this is any thing serious. Is there any m

I was dry humping my girlfriend, genitals to genitals. She was naked but I had both underwear and sweatpants on. As I ejaculated, I moved away from her. Could precum or cum travel thru my underwe

Is it possible to get aids from saliva? My friend lick his finger while flipping pages, and i immediate touched the pages after him since i had to explain something. My thumb have a skin condition (w

More information i forgot to mention, not sure if its shameful for me to even mention it, my friend is gay and i am not familiar with his sexual past. i heard from a friend that gay ppl are more ea

Ive been masturbating for several years, a lot, at some points i even did 4 times in a single day. Now I have three problems: my penis seems to bend a little to the left and low, I have a urinary prob

Okay i don't know how to say this but i like this guy and he likes me but my problem is every time i talk to him like in school or on the phone i get really horny. And now he did something that he fee

I have a question to add on to another one that I read. I was reading through questions that had to deal with precum, and the possibility of getting pregnant. One of the questions talked about rubbing

Thank you for your answer (again) :) However, just last nite I had another scare. I have a small blister (white dot/piece of dead skill behind my lip, inside my mouth) yesterday from eating too much