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Megan Andelloux has answered 98 questions.

After I ejaculate my penis hurts if I have another erection. It is a pain that is inside the penis, within the tube - I believe the urethra. I can have another erection without problem, but the pain

I just have some questions about birth control. I am taking ortho-tricyclin and I wonder if and when I ovulate, and if it is possible to get pregnant during the last week (while I am having my period

Hi, I find that I do not ejaculate enough and the sperm comes out thick and does not spray..Is there any medication or tecnique to make the sperm more liquid and more volume?

I have never ejaculated during sex and when i try to masturbate the normal way I cannot ejaculate however when I masturbate my way I can ejaculate but I hate the way I have to do it to ejaculate .

I have Mononucleosis, and i was just wondering if you can give your boyfriend oral sex, and him not get Mononucleosis?????

I am experiencing loss of sensation following adult circumcision due to paraphimosis 2 1/2 years ago. It has made completing intercourse just about impossible. One urologist said that it was all in my

If my boyfriend ejaculates into my mouth, how long do the sperm stay alive in my mouth? Are the sperm killed by brushing my teeth, using mouthwash, etc? Or, can the sperm be completely washed away b

ok, i have 2questions. 1)which would be better to have sex before or after my period starts. 2) and the second is how long after the last day of my period should i wait before having sex. thank u..hop

Hi, I'm sixteen and my girlfriend is fifteen and we have recently moved our relationship to sex. She has no hymen and she is a virgin and the first time I put it in her was alright and she said it fe

HI IM 15 1/2 AND I WAS WONDERING IF IT IS NORMAL THAT MY PENIS IS 13 CM HARD AND MY PUBES ARE 5 CM FROM THE BASE AND THERE NOT BUSHY LIKE THEY SHOULD BE?AND I WAS WONDERING WHY I GET HARD ALOT FOR NO

I'm 18 and i've been sexually active for about 5 years now..and i can never get an orgasm for oral sex or sex...and if im about to i get this feeling of pain like its a huge build up to go but it just

hi!i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend and i was just wondering if there's something wrong with me because i didnt bleed when we did it!even though we did it in a lot of different position

I am a 18 year old virgin. i just recently tried to have sex. he was very thick and big. when he tried to put it in me i began to bleed and it hurt. it seemed to bleed alot. well like i was start

I have had a sexual partner before, with whom I have had unprotected intercourse. I am currently with another partner, to whom I am the first and the only partner. I have recently been to a clinic t

I have been with my boyfriend for over two years now, and I am becoming very concerned with some of his sexual behaviors. He is 27 years old and has always had an extremely high sex drive. About six

hi. i've been very close with my new boyfreind and we've been talking about sex and all that good stuff. but i know oral sex was talked about. and i know it's bound to happen, and i'm not against it.

Im 17 years old and i have been having vaginal sex for 6 months now and have never had a orgasm from this. i have no problems getting an orgasm through oral sex. i also have no problem getting an orga

hi have been sexually active with my boyfriend for about a year now. After my last period i have been excreting veganil fluids that end up on my underwear and have a foul ouder to it. After i have s

i have been getting "double" periods for the past two months. I am on birth control but I get a two week period. For the week before im supposed to get it and then for the week im supposed to get it.

Is it possible to know whether my partner is a carier through being tested, is it visible in blood work? because i recently had an out break hes never had one is it possible that he could have given m

I recently began dating a wonderful woman, and we have had sex several times. I have used a condom, and while I can maintain an erection pretty well, I cannot feel enough through the latex to ejaculat

I was diagnosed with HPV and had moderate cervical dysplasia about a year and a half ago. I had LEEP and have been getting PAPs every six months. According to my doctors everything has healed well. My

Hi I am 41 and have 3 children 13, 10 and 8. After my son (8), I had my tubes tied. My fiance' and I have been talking about having a baby which I really want. We have a very health sex life (every

I am 24 and am sexually active with a 39 year old male. 2 yrs ago he had cancer and Dr.s went in a removed the cancer from his scrotum. Obviously there was concern on wether he was going to be able

My girlfriend has been checked for STD's, and came up negative. She hasnt had sex in two years. Recently, we had sex for the first time, I used a condom and everything was ok. She has also been on

i've been sexual active since 14 i have a child and I never had an orgasim i've tried everything i can't masterbate i never get wet i am always dry i've tried toys my man wet down on me i tried slow f

Hi there, I'm 16 and have been taking birth control for a long time. I have been able to masturbate to orgasm before with no problems. I then started taking Yasmin birth control and all of a sudden m

what is the reason for the absence of mensuration? How it can be solved?

hello my name is kelly Im 20 and ive never had an orgasm nor have I ever masterbated ive been thinking about buying a vibrator which kind do you reccomend? and How do I use it ive never done it before

Hi i have a ? about getting pregnant, i was on depo-provera which was 16 months ago and have got the all clear but i have noticed that my dh cum's quickly can this prevent me from getting pregnant. t

I have noticed a bump on the top of my penis. This isn't on the skin, but seems to be below it. When I move the skin to one side, the bump stays in place. I am 17 and have never been sexually active i

my girlfriend have been trying to have sex for a while now and we have had some problems. I have a 5 inch penis and when ever i try to enter into her vagina, my penis pushes away from it. THis has hap

I am 15 years old. My penis is very small it is about 7 cm (almost 3 inches) in length, and 9 cm when erect. Is this normal? I have masturbated for many years almost every day. Does this effect my siz

yeah i was just wondering why my penis skin is SO much darker then my body skin, its very noticible and is there anything i can do to make it the normal colour

Earlier tonight my girlfriend and i were dryhumping and a lot of precum got on her (we were going at it for quite a while) though i urinated fairly soon before we started so i know no sperm were in my

My girlfriend and I had sex recently, we used a condom but afterwards saw it not on the penis, we weren't sure whether it came off before during or after ejaculation. It was roughly 13 days before the

If my hymen is torn and it bleeds, does it mean I have an open wound or a sore?

Hi, I'm a 38 yr old female, my sex drive is stronger than ever...my question is regarding a different type of orgasim. During sex I have multiple orgasims.. sometimes it can be brought on by clitoral

I am a 56 year old post-menopausal woman with a healthy interest in sex. I have begun a serious relationship with a 66 year old man, who is also interested in having an intimate relationship. He is no

Ok again srry that you have to hear the same questions all the time bu I am parranoid just as everybody else who asks thier questions. My boyfriend rubbed his penis up against my clitoris(we were both

hi, im 28 years old, virgin and im having this problem when im having sexual intercourse with my gf and before her with some other girls. the thing i can get her all excited but i cant cum not even wi

I just recently started having intercourse again after a 2 year hiatus. We have intercourse regularly, but on two occassions his penis is hitting something deep inside my vagina that causes a sharp p

I have had sex many times and have been figered and had a boy eat me out, some of boys that have had a lots of practice, yet during the many times about sexual pleasure i have never reached a orgasm,

I'm 15 and I have had sex 5 times and after the 5th time there is still a little bit of bleeding, not enough to cause a problem, but i am still worrying that i will always bleed, is this normal?

Here is the situation. My guy & i had sex, and he didn't use a condom at first. We did this for about 5 minutes, then he put on a spermicidal condom to finish. I was on the 12th-14th day of my cycle.

im 14 years old and have a 10 cm penis when erect. i have masterbated for many years. does this effect the length of my penis?

ok i am not having sex but my boyfriend and i have fooled around in other ways. ie. fingering and handjobs. anyways my question is the other day i was fooling around with my boyfriend we were both ful

I am 19 years old and I just wanted to know if it is normal to be able to move my penis up & down?

I am a 38 year old bisexual male, and I use a vibrator for sexual pleasure.What I would like to know is if using it will hurt my rectum.

I work in a tbi home, I care for 4 clients. I have a young man, 29 yrs old who is bright , handsome, and very, very horney. I am having a hard time finding him a friend, or even a toy to help him be s

How can i get over my spouse sending and receiving sexual orientated emails? He has already closed those accounts but this woman continues to drive me batty everytime i see her name or something that

My question is as follows: I am an eight-teen year old male, in good health, and I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for about a year now. We've been sexually active for about five mon

Are there any problems with masturbating too frequently? I have been masturbating for as long as I can remember (since before puberty). In my teenage years I would frequently maturbate multiple time

ok i really REALLY need help on this one it's buging the hell out of me, ok yesterday me and my GF were umm "doing it" and during intercoruse the condom snapped i felt it and pulled out. my girl frien

Hey, I am 33 and my husband is 42. We have great sex but doesn't seem to last more than maybe 3-5 minutes, I was just wondering if this is normal in a man his age? I love the whole 3-5 minutes,he is u

i feel that my penis is bent towards the left side which looks very odd secondly my left testes is also smaller in size then the right one and after intercourse i feel a little bit pain in my testes.

hey this is a great site and i want to ask a question that will probly clear up a lot of other questions, ok me and my girl friend were haveing sexual intercoruse and i was wondering. we did it with a

can instant hand sanitizer kill sperm? (ya know the kind that melts when it touches you're hand?) and if so if a girl was to put this inside her after unsafe sex could it prevent a pregancey?

Hi, I am a 30 year woman trying to figure out my sexual orientation. Growing up, I was a bit asexual in that I was more interested in being liked by people as opposed to building an intimate, real re

Q#1 Hello. I'm a 16 year old man who maybe more horny than most other guys, having the urge to have sex numerous times in the day. I masturbate about twice a day out of my sexual urge to get off. My q

I'm a 21 year old male. During sex a few months ago, my girlfriend got a little overzealous and ended up putting too much pressure between her and my zipper resulting in open sores. After allowing it

i masturbated the other week. later, i found out one of my housemates also did, and possibly touched some the the stuff (ie the faucet, remote control, etc.) afterwards. if there was still sperm on th

Hi. I'm a 27 year old male, married for 3 years. We have been trying to get pregnant for the past 4 or so months. The last time, during our last sexual encounter, I was unable to sustain an erectio

My gf and I were having some fun between us the other night. We did several things, but I would like to mention ask is: we had vaginal sex on and off I believe 3 times, and only for a short time each,

i am a 14 year old male who has been masturbating for 3 years. I was wondering if masturbating affects you in the long run? also, is it normal to have a brown line across the shaft area of my penis. a

Hi, i am young teenager and overly worried about this..about a week ago my b/f and I were fooling around. We have never had sexual intercourse but we do have oral sex. I gave him head but he did NOT

I have been taking tryphasic oral contraceptives for a 4 years now, and am usually pretty good about taking them on time. Recently though I have been under a minimal ammount of stress and have been of

dear who eva can help me, hi i'm and 16 year old male,i feel i have a small penis its 5-7 cm long but when i get a boner it like 10-15 cm long but i wanna show my gf my penis but when i do i think

right, me and my girlfriend were having sex and we are always checking the condom to prevent any accidents. recently i pulled my penis out (before ejaculation) and i noticed alot of white spots on he

Hi, I am a healthy 21 year old virgin male and i have always had a healthy sex drive but around 6-7 months ago, i noticed it diminishing slightly and when i was with a partner i noticed that i wasnt a

is it possible to get pregnant without penetration (only contact) and before ejaculation? i don't remember exactly when this happened - if it was 4 days before or a day after ovulation. it is about 9

richard, i wanna kno when is the soonest i can have sex after my GF's period???

Hi there, i spent lastnight with my gf and were both virgins. We had never tried to have sex until lastnight. It didnt go as planned, basically the problem was that i could not keep my penis up and wh

I feel kind of dumb for having to ask this, since i'm 32 years old and should of know better. I recently started dating a guy who i didn't plan on having sex with but i did. I haven't been on birth co

Is it safe for a male to ejaculate inside of you when you are having sex? What are the risked involved in doing this?

Hi, I'm a 15 year old boy. My problem is that just last night I noticed a strange sort of discharge coming from my penis after I masturbated. It was clear, thick and as far as I know, odourless. It ju

my boyfriends sperm is really thick and white. its very clumpy and isnt runny at all. why is this, is it a problem?

Hey, i am almost 14, with no armit hair and a little hair on my legs. I have tried a lot (fast, slow, lubricant but I havent been able to cum or have any kind of orgasm or ejaculation. I can feel wher

I have been off of birth control for about 4 months but my period has never been very regular since I came off of it. I'm not sure exactly what my typical cycle is but it has been 30 days since my las

Okay i swear i may die of stress. Please, someone end my misery! I know how stupid this was, im 15 and my boyfriend and i were fooling around when i said that he could put his head into my vagina. It

i'm 32 yr old, married guy. recently my wife and i havetried anal sex. my ? is if this normal, is it okay or could it cause any problems to her or myself?

hi and thanx for helping me out.my dorsal vein has been swollen for a couple of months now and when i went to see my physician about it he told me to hold back my foeskin and clean the head of my peni

Hi, In the recent years i notice my penis has a very strong and unpleasant smell. im uncircumcised but the smell didnt begin until recent years. is there anything i can do to stop the unpleasant smel

Can my girlfriend get pregnant if she takes a kleenex with my cum on it and goes into the bathroom and takes the cum off the kleenex and pushes it up her vagina? Or what if she has it on her hand and

I gave a handjob to my boyfriend, who ejaculated and had cum on his penis. after that, we had intercourse without protection. is there any possible chance that i could get pregnant because of the dry

My daughter got her first period when she was ten it was red and it only lasted a day. she is now 12 and she has not gotten it since. What's wrong?

Four days ago my boyfriend and I were fooling around in bed. Neither of us have ever had sex or been in any way sexually active. We ended up both with our pants off and his penis was touching my vagin

Me and my girlfriend had sex, with protection, and i also didnt cum in her, a week after she had her period but now her vagina is bleeding for no reason, is she pregnent?

After having oral sex with my girlfriend I breakout with a couple of cold sores round my mouth. Currently, she has a breakout of cold sores around her mouth approximately 12 days a mouth. I asked her

Can a girl who gives a guy oral sex get any kind of diseases from this besides STD's?

Can masturbation effect my helth physically or mentally? I masturbate regularly and i also have problems with consentration could the two be related?

I's anal sex safe after hysterectomy,4-weeks ago.

if i have dis charge that looks like cottage cheese, but no other signs of illness, is it ok to receive oral sex

Hey. where to start! I guess i should start with my first time. well i was 16, and i don't even know if this counts as losing your virginity! he penetrated me, and it hurt, but we carried on. after ab

The day before Halloween I had sex for the first time unprotected. Right before Thanksgiving I developed what I thought was a yeast infection. There was internal and external itching and a white dis

Hi, i'm 23 years old and have been sexually active since i was 16 (i have ony had 3 partners). Sometimes whilst during intercourse and sometimes after intercourse i get a very painful cramp like thing

hi , i am a 13 y/o i was wondering can you masturbate wrong or right as the matter of fact? also is it possible to get headaches while masturbating if you are in an uncomfortable postion ?? and the l

Hi, I just wanted to know when you have sex is it like in the porn movies where its sex on the bed and on the couch and stuff or is it like in the movies where its under the covers?