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Blaise Parker has answered 70 questions.

A few months back my wife went out with a friend of hers to a night club. while in the club my wife started drinking and ended up kissing another woman and and told her "ill make you feel like a woman

Thanks for the website. My finacee and I are engaged to be married but we have a problem. She says that my semen has an ordor and a bitter taste. This creates a problem with oral sex. My ex wife

I suffer from low libido, there is no reason that I feel this way, I just never feel like sex. I love my boyfriend very much and we have been together for 3yrs. What can I do to increase my libido? I

I don´t know this is a problem I want to know if the fantasy that my boyfriend and I dream is normal.

I am a man whom is disabled (C4-5 Quadriplegic) and gay. I have questions and concerns about anal sex without having sensation.

I have a lack of desire with my husband whom I;ve been married to for 17 years. But I am confused because I have constant fantasies about women and I have for as long as I can remember. I had an exp

I am a german student writing a dissertation concerning disability and sexuality. The priority is set on service enterprises for people with handicap who need help with their sexuality. My quest

I have a question regarding biological differences between homosexuals and heterosexuals. I read your column concerning sexual orientation and the causes of homosexuality. While you did acknowledge

I'm divorced,42 yrs. old with 2 kids. During my marriage I had great sex with my husband, with whom I shared several dreams and fantasies about being with another woman. He was always supporting and e

I have always been sexually active, but my boyfriend has not. He had intercourse for his first time with me, about a week ago. We have had intercourse twice. Our problem is that his penis keeps sl

Sexual orientation in a relationship. With my actual boyfriend i have phone sex only because he lives in Usa and I live in Venezuela. And in our phone experience sex we have a fantasy about to have se

My 13 year old daughter has sexuality issues. We come from a different country/culture and she has not had relationships with opposite sex and now that she is going to 9th grade in the U.S she wants t

I am very upset as I write to you about this topic.Please do not shut me out and please respond. It is VERY important to me. I will explain this from the beginning. I am now 20 years of age. I never

sometimes when i sleep and i get an erection i wake up with some blood on my pants, or when i masturbate i sometimes see that after i ejacualte, i start bleeding from my penis for 2 minutes or so..is

Are women able to have an erection like men, say a clitoral erection? When women have orgasm, is there a discharge of some kind, say a body fluid of some kind, like semen?

To return to asking you a question, you said "g-spot"--What, where is the g-spot?

i need to know about when i can do sex with my girlfriend without empregnant her. i've heard a lot about 5 days before her period and 5 days after her period, but i am not sure at all and wanted an ex

I am a 27-year-old man, and I feel attracted towards boys. I do want to change and I want to feel attracted towards girls. Can I? I want to marry. Can I? Please advice

Thanks Blaise Astra Parker! Remember me? I wrote to you a little while back about how I was so scared, confused, worried and upset about my sexual orientation. I told you kids used to make fun of me,

Please find below my primary concerns: - 1. I'm a 23 yrs old workingwoman. My breasts are too small. I would like to undergo a cosmetic surgery. Please let me know the addresses of the hospital/nursi

When I was 13 my step father started molesting me. By the time I was 14, he was raping me almost every night.I finally told on him when I was 15 1/2. Of course I've been to several therapists and psyc

I am an 18 year old openly bisexual female, and it intimidates my boyfriend. He knows it's a part of me that can't be changed, but he's not sure how to react to it. Is it normal for me to desire an ex

I am not the most experienced when it comes to sexual intercourse ,and I am thoroughly anxious and panicky about having intercourse.When attempts are sometimes made I clam up and it someimes has been

One of my testicles is larger than the other since a few years. There is no pain in the testicles even if I press harder,no pain after ejaculation.Is it a testicular cancer? Please inform me soon as

i want to ask about pregnancy, me and my gf doesn't have sex.. but we were patting and i ejaculated.. not into her, but onto her vaginal... i am very worry whether she will get pregnant... wat is the

I feel that internally I'm a guy ( dun like to wear dresses and make-up at all ). Quite rough and like to play boy-games while small. I start missing my girl friends since I'm 14th years old. Later I

i feel embarassed about this, and i dont know if there is any help...while sleeping with out knowing,(my husband tell's me)i am masterbating and i have no knowledge of it..how is this possible, and st

I am 20 years old and I have been questioning my sexual orientation and I have had sex with girls and I had sex with a guy about 3 weeks ago and I got crabs and I went to the store and bought a bottle

I can have clitoral orgasms but I've been trying to have vaginal orgasms for a few years now. Where is the "G-spot" usually located in women? I feel like I don't even have one. I've heard that when th

I have done masterbation excessively. i want to know that can i be a father or not. how could i know this because i m not married. what test should i have to know this. also that rapid ejaculation, in

I will try to make this brief, I am happily maried and love my wife very much, we have a healthy sex life from what I can tell. Although I am always horny and have been that way for as long as I can

hello i have i question i have been married for 5 yrs and after we have sex i have swelling and when looking at it ,it doesnt even look like a vigina and it burns i just need to know if its a diesease

I think my boyfriend is gay. I used to nag him constantly about being gay. He would get very angry and defensive. I feel as if all the signs are there...he's worked in gay bars before, and doesn't min

hii doctor I am 20 years old i have had a habbit of mansturbation since i was 13 years old i almost jack off every day since i was 13 until now do you think it can affect my health ? and one thin

I am studying Sexual Health & Reproductive Health Nursing. My assignment is on " What are the major issues impact on sexual health & reproductive system among Gay and Lesbian people. I need references

masturbation addict,never had sex,is it harmful? some say it is irreligious.Should that be problem while having sex with a partener?

My problem is me and my boyfriend of 1 year have both been wanting to explore new regions and new ways of having sex or mastibating for each other my question is what other ways is there of sex after

i am wondering if homosexuality is a genetic disposition, and if so, what are the chances for two children in the same family to be gay. i am 27 yrs old, married for five yrs..my brother is 32 and is

my problem is that me and my girlfriend has been having sex occasionally before and now she just suddenly feels that she do not want to have it any more.I feel bad as there is a crave for it.Although

I have a girl friend whch is 16 years old and I'm 15 years old. 2 weeks ago we had some sort of sex. I had my boxers on and she had her panties on too. And I was rubing my private part on her private

My new wife, who I've been with since high school, has discovered that I have used forms of pornography (internet lately) to privately become aroused. She feels betrayed that I didn't tell her the tr

My girlfriend and I are both bisexual. We have been in a monogamous relationship (albeit long distance) for over a year. She is very assertive sexually, and I am not, so much. This seems to cause some

I am getting married in October and My period arrives arround the same time, is there something that I can take to have it come sooner in the month or later?

How to educate males to stop worrying about their penis size? When I was younger I often had this complex, especially since I'm Asian I got lots of ridicules from others on my penis size. As I grow ol

I'm age 30 and recently becomng sexually active with my partner (age 37), she has admitted to "not feeling me inside of her during intercourse all the time." I know serveral things that may play into

I want to get more information about sexual relationships between a man and a woman.

I have been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now and we have decided that we want to experience our first sexual relationship. My boyfriend has explained to me that he will not penetrate

I am in my early 30's and I started to find sexual pleasure in areas other than normal heterosexual relationships. I discovered ways to masturbate and achieve female orgasm, that is, my penis stays er

I would like to know if i am being unreasonable in my thinking that there is a differance between making love and sex. I feel like my husband and I just have sex because I don't feel as though there i

Hi, me and my husband have been having sex a lot lately and ever since the last time we had sex I have been irritated and sore down there. Could this be from having sex too much? I think it might be a

We have been married for 11 months (we both are 34) and my husband just told me that 'he thinkst' he might be bisexual because he gets aroused by looking a gay pictures or films, he fantasies about 'd

I want to know if I an straight, Bisexual or curious. I am attracted to women without a doubt but want to know if I am attracted to men in any way, shape or form. I'm not vey emotional. There were

I have been dating my bf for a year and we are very much in love. We have decided we want to have oral sex but he isnt circumsized. I have heard that guys who arent circumsized dont get any pleasure f

I have a small penis,is there a way to enlarge in an operation? Not medical pills because i want to control what size i can enlarge it to.

I have a question about hymem. having sex with girls who have an annular hymem and there hymem return to regular form after sexual relationship without any bloodshed or visual damages on her hymem ma

This email come to my work. I would really like your imput, but am concerned with the confidentiality. Is there a way to notify me where to go to find the response, so it doesn't come here to work u

Hi. I'm a virgin, and uncircumsised. The tip of my penis under the foreskin hurts when its touched, especially when it brushes past something, what's going on there?

My girlfriend and I were dry humping about 6 weeks ago. We both had on pants and underwear. i noticed afterwards that some semen had soaked to the outside of my pants. a couple days later she thought

Hello, My wife and I are interested in me performing Analingus on her. We have been married for a little over a year, and were both virgins when we got married.

I had hepatitis A about 8 y

My question is this: in one week how many time sex with a girl or our wife.and if 1 or 2 day in a week then how many trip in one time.

I have a freckle on the end of my penis, is that at all common? can i get rid of it?

Hi, I am a 28 year old guy and I have been attracting women into bed, but somehow very often they always leave or ask me to leave. This usually happens when I try intercourse. My penis slips out quite

I'm 79 y/o. I still very much love sex. But I have trouble ejackulating. The only way is to masterbate for a very long time. I don't cum as much either. Is there anything that I can do?

I am 32 years old. I have two children 8 and 6. My husband and i havent had the time to have sex at all this summer because of them. They never go to sleep and they are always by my side. Not only hav

Hi I am 18, with a unique question for you. I have flaps of skin around my...ass. They are at the top and fall down which they extened a distance just before you can not see anymore. They have a ruff

I have a compulsion to see naked men being viewed as an object and enjoyed by fully clothed women. I like to do it also if I get a chance. Thinking about this itself helps my erection stay longer when

i am having a problem with my man in the bedroom we are a gay couple been together for almost 10 months hes not a very sexual person and i have a high sex drive i am 22 hes 43 my problem is he always

hi i have a friend named chris, ho happens to be gay, (no big deal, were great friend still)and reciently he has been complaining to me about some pain in his testicles. heres the actuall conversatio

I am an able bodied gay man interested in dating a gay man I recently met online who is 11 years younger than myself with mild cerebral palsy (he uses canes to walk). We both have little relationship

Dear Friend,I'm a homosexual person and I've been in a very successful relationship since 2 years,I'm the active person and I have a concern about my partner.I sometimes ejaculate(release sperm) insid