Expert Q & A Answers About Desire + Pleasure
Is it normal to get aroused by any little thing a women does to you? I get aroused by hugs or kisses, or even holding hands. It's kind of embarrassing...how can I control my erections? At night, my girlfriend won't even cuddle because I have an erection. I'm really bad with premature ejaculation, too. Any thoughts?
My husband is 22 years old and has never felt physical pleasure during masturbation or sex. Oral sex gives him a little pleasure, but only on the penis head and testicles. He can get an erection and ejaculate – but, again, it’s not pleasurable. Is there something physically or psychologically wrong with him?
The man I am currently with is not circumcised. How can I give oral sex to him so he can enjoy it? Do you pull the foreskin back?
K-Y Liquid makes me and my husband feel a burning sensation. Do we need to use a different lubricant?
My husband and I were both virgins when we married last week. We’ve been enjoying great sex, but decided that - for the extended efforts of newlyweds - we needed extra lubrication. We chose K-Y Liquid. It worked well until last night. As soon as my husband inserted his penis, it was like we both were on fire. We ran for the shower. Once rinsed we felt better, but we are hesitant to try again. Please help!
I am a 35-year-old woman in a very fulfilling and loving relationship. I have bipolar disorder and take several medications daily. But these drugs have erased any sexual desire, decreased the feeling of sexual stimulation and made achieving an orgasm a task rather than a pleasure. I don’t think decreasing my dosage is a good idea, but how do I get around this lousy side effect? I don’t want a sexless life!
My husband and I are newly married and he was recently sent to the Middle East with a deployment by the armed forces. How can we keep the home fires burning, sexually, while he's away?
I'm an 18-year-old girl and I find that I have heavier vaginal discharge every time I'm around my friend. We do kiss, but I seem to get excited just being around her. We could just be sitting there doing nothing, and I feel like I’m excreting vaginal fluid. I'm really embarrassed because I've never been in a relationship before. Is this normal? Or do I some kind of disorder or disease?