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Women's Sexual Health: Pleasure Pleasure Introduction:
Pleasure adds meaning to our lives, regardless of the source of that pleasure. Sexual pleasure is particularly powerful. Our bodies respond to sexual pleasure in ways that can be exhilarating, exciting, earth-shattering, and even healing. Shared sexual pleasure can create or enhance intimacy with partners. Creativity in sexual expression, such as trying sex toys or different sexual positions, can keep relationships sexually exciting and diverse. Sexual pleasure achieved through self-stimulation can improve body image, enhance self-appreciation, and increase understanding about the types of sexual touch one’s body prefers. This information can then be shared with a partner. This channel deals with these factors.
Answered Women's Sexual Health - Pleasure Questions: My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years and having sex for 4. Every time I get close to orgasm (usually I'm on top facing him to even get close), I feel the need to slow way down because ....
I have performed cunnilingus twice on my girlfriend, each time for the better part of an hour. I am new at this but seem to be enjoying it. My girlfriend is 22 and tells me she is a virgin. I don't ....
I am a girl and am 13. I have been masturbating for a couple of months now and it is taking me longer to become aroused while masturbating. What can I do about it?
Hello,
I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and we have been having intercourse for about the same amount of time. I was a virgin prior to this. There is a distance issue with us ....
I am a 17 year old female who is not sure how to masterbate. I don't want to buy a sex toy because i don't have much money. I i don't use them can i not masterbate. I don't have a boyfriend to help me ....
hi kat,
i have been with my gf for 7 months now and i wanna know how i can give her a orgams? she keeps asking me why dont i give her one but how can i knwo she wont tell me how i give her or how she ....
????? Okay I want to masterbate when I feel sad because it makes me happy and when I do masterbait I watch some of my brothers porn. I was wondering Is it right for me to get aroused watching other pe ....
I am not sexually active but my boyfriend has tried "fingering" me more than once. I was so mentally into it but I didn't cum or feel anything physically. My previous boyfriend couldn't get me to feel ....
Dear Dr. Kat,
"What's up with all of the female arousal creams I hear about? Do they work?"
Dear Dr. Kat,
I'm a 26-year-old female who has never been able to have an orgasm when I wanted to. If I do orgasm it seems to happen almost by accident. I'm not currently in a relationship but I ....
Dear Dr. Kat,
The only sex toy we ever had was a vibrator I bought for myself about 10 years ago. It just died and now I'd like a new one. But I'd really love to share this aspect of my sexua ....
Dear Dr. Kat,
I've always considered myself a woman with a very active fantasy life. I've fantasized about sex since I was a teenager but never shared them with anyone - including my partners ....
I've been with my girlfriend about six months now. There have been a couple of times when we've had sex (I'm penetrating her from the back), she orgasms, and fluid comes out of her. And not just a ....
Im a 16yr old female and ive always had amazing sex.But quite recently Ive lost the ability to orgasm.There is no sensation at all.The day before it mysteriously disapeared my boyfriend and I tried an ....
i am 20y girl when i had sex appeal i get totally naked n enter corner of pillow or hands of toys inside my pussy rubbing up n down n i get a nice feeling 4 a minute Is this masturbation? Is now i am ....
Hi, I'm a 38 yr old female, my sex drive is stronger than ever...my question is regarding a different type of orgasim. During sex I have multiple orgasims.. sometimes it can be brought on by clitoral ....
i've been sexual active since 14 i have a child and I never had an orgasim i've tried everything i can't masterbate i never get wet i am always dry i've tried toys my man wet down on me i tried slow f ....
I can't masterbate. It's doesn't feel good to me. It does when my husband does it but I can't have an orgasm. I know that I get really wet sometimes and other times not so much. It really bothers me t ....
hi doctor my girlfriend and got curious about one thing:when i touch and press her tits will they develop i mean become bigger and larger?or what changes become in her tits??thank u
I'm a 33 yr old married female and for the past 1-2 yrs my orgasms have gone from very intense & pleasurable to almost nothing. I can still achieve orgasm, but the muscle contractions are extremely we ....
Hi, I was referred to this site by sxetc.org while searching for "female sexual exploration". My reason? My wife of approx 15 years kind of dropped a bomb on me the other night. What she told me didn' ....
I have been finding it very difficult to get any form of sexual arousal. this is usually more prominent when i find it very difficult to get lubricated that my boyfriend actually referres to me as a d ....
i cant seem to reach a climex when haveing sex with my husband i be wanting to reach a climex sooo bad that i get mad at my husband I stay mad all of the time. I be wanting my husband touch me hold me ....
My vaginal lubrication tends to get dry after a couple of seconds..i dont remain wet for a long time.. i have little genital sensation.. no sensations at all in my nipples.. and i come very close to a ....
Before I had my hysterectomy(at age 26)i didn't know if i was having an orgasm or not.now after 10 years i am having difficulty with lubrication and still am not sure if what i am experiencing is a "n ....
Hi, where can I find articles and information about Cauda equina syndrome? I'm a 34 year old healthy and active female two years post op after emergency lumbar laminectomy w/o fusion and a partial dis ....
I recently came very close to dying. A wake-up call. Even though I am 40, I am
a virtual sexual novice. It made me re-evaluate my sexual life. I realized that
I have never experienced sex as a "wh ....
I'm a 25 year old male and my fiance in 18 months younger to me. We have been engaged since the last 4 months and are getting married 15 days from now. We are both deeply in love with each other and a ....
My problem is that I can't orgasm. I'm 19 years old and have been sexually active for what's going on two years now. I never masturbated and never could have pleasure from self-masturbation. My boyfri ....
Hello Doctor, and thank you for taking the time to read my question.
I am 29 ,I have a 9 year old daughter and have been in a monogamus relationship for the past
3 1/2 years. The problem that ....
Hi. I hope you can answer my guestions. When me and my husband have sex sometimes it hurts in certain positions. Could this be because it goes in too far and that it might br scraping my cervix? After ....
I just want to ask ,How to bring any woman to the
hightest point of excitment and desire to have sex right now?
THANKS
"please clear with pictures as possiple asyou can"
I am 20 yrs old--married to a wonderful 47 yr old man.....our/my problem is I never seem to get wet or have a orgasm. He gets me hot enough...but I am always very dry or come very little..I feel like ....
i was wondering, whenever having oral sex, or just being fingered by a guy, should you become extremely lubricated? it gets very wet in that area and i was wondering if that is normal or not?
My girlfriend and I have been together for about 4 months and I'm crazy about her. But when we get to "messing around" it falls short. A physical relationship is not extremely important, but it's go ....
I am 20 and my girlfriend is 18. While I have no problems reaching an orgasm she does not at all. She says that it feels good but thats it. I feel like I am letting her down as a sexual partner. Am I ....
I am a 21 year old male and while making out with my girlfriend I can not control myself and I cum. It is really hard to control, and is very embarassing. How can I stop this? We are not sexually acti ....
i feel embarassed about this, and i dont know if there is any help...while sleeping with out knowing,(my husband tell's me)i am masterbating and i have no knowledge of it..how is this possible, and st ....
Hi Dr.McCafree, I am 17 years old and having problems getting "wet". I am not sexually active and do not plan to be until I am married. I have only been fingered by two guys but I find no pleasure i ....
Where can I get help regarding my zero sex drive and inability for arousal? I am a 31 yr old woman and I have always had virtually no genital sensation, never had an orgasm (alone or with different pa ....
my wife and i make love in the massonary position.she wants me to try anul sex with her.iv tried it once when we were drunk but i think my penis is a little to big can you tell me what lubracation i s ....
I have had a consistent problem with over vaginal lubrication, meaning that I lubricate to the point that there is no "friction", causing my significant other to lose his erection. How can I avoid thi ....
I need to know why I can't orgasm and do not feel anything most of the time when my my partner is inside of me. I feel pain when it is inserted, and then the whole way through, I feel nothing.
But, ....
Are women able to have an erection like men, say a clitoral erection? When women have orgasm, is there a discharge of some kind, say a body fluid of some kind, like semen?
Hi,
I am an American male living in China and I fell in love with a Chinese girl but we have a problem. I have a larger than normal penis and she is smaller than normal. She is only about four feet 1 ....
I have always been sexually active, but my boyfriend has not. He had intercourse for his
first time with me, about a week ago. We have had intercourse twice. Our problem is that his penis
keeps sl ....
Hi doc,
I am a bachelor. last week when i was with my lover in a car. I was fondling with her breast. but she said that she was not feling anything sensuous or sensational.It was the first time for b ....
I am a 26 year old female. I enjoy having sex with my boyfriend but lately it has become less enjoyable. We use condoms as our main birth control. When we are having sex everything seems to be going f ....
I want to know if there is a way to have sex during my period so that my boyfriend doesn't have to get all bloody and gross. Can I douche and then is there a way to suppress beeding for a bit or can I ....
I 24 and been with the same guy for 5 years now. We have a 3 yr old son. My problem is that I never have an orgasm with my partner. I can have an orgasm if I used a vibrator on my clit and then it tak ....
I am a 26 year old virgin and have recently started seeing a man who wants to be sexually active. We've pleasured each other in many ways but have never had intercourse. I am nervous about my "first ....
I am a 19 year old male that has not had intercourse yet. My girlfriend has given my oral sex many times and I would like to return the favor. The problem is, is tha I do not know how to make her or ....
whenever i go down on my girlfriend she says it tickles and wants me to stop. she says i'm doing it right just it tickles too much for her to handle. i can get her to orgasm through intercourse and ....
Hello, I have a question concerning my orgasms and birth conrol pills. For the past few months, it has been a lot harder for me to reach orgasm and the ones that I do have are very small ones. Somet ....
I have been pleasing myself for about 4 years now and for awhile now, i have been doing it everynight, i was wondering if that was normal. Also i wanted to know- when i do it i get a better orgasm whe ....
Hello. I am 19 and I am in great need of your help. I know this question will sound like I'm under age but you must trust me. I do not know how to properly masturbate. Please, I need your help greatly ....
I have been searching for my wife's g spot for some time now and have not had any luck. Any thoughts or suggestions? Do all women have a g spot?
Me and my Husband have been married for 2 years, and my daughter is almost 2. Ever since my daughter has been born I have lost all of my sex drive. I love my partner with all of my heart but I am just ....
I am going in for a hysterectomy in 4 weeks for adenomyosis. Will my husband be able to tell during sex ? Will I be bigger or will it not change much in the sense of feeling for him? I fear that I wil ....
I don't know if this is truly and orgasmic disorder or not. I used to have orgasms every time
my boyfriend and I had sex, but it was only because I was trying really had to have them and
I was rubb ....
The problem: I'm 20 now. When I was 13 or so, I started masturbating,and I developed a habit of doing so whenever I was extremely stressed. I
found it to be of immense relief.
I've since tried ....
Q:when a man sucks milk from his wifes breast does it have any side effects(-ive or +ive)on the her mamary glands,her over all health,or the man's health?does this act(suckling)damage the breast or ha ....
I am 17 and I don't know if you can help, but for some reason I don't seem to enjoy sex. I have had some problems in the past (the guy I lost my virginity too was abusive and our relationship ended in ....
since 7 years (long before my hormones were getting out of balance) I suddenly got a pain at (in) my clitoris. It feels like neuralic pain. The specialists and sexuologist were not able to help me. Th ....
I am not sure if my problem is medical or sexual but no one seems to have any idea how to help so I thought a miracle may happen here and you may know the answer. Can a time come in a womans life when ....
I am a 29 year old female. I have been married for 6 years and 9 months, and in the past year and a half or so my sex drive has almost completely vanished. My husband and I used to have sex 2-3 times ....
I am 23 years old and have had several sexual partners. I have never particularly enjoyed intercouse but this could be due to the brief nature of the encounters. I have been in a loving and sexually ....
During intercourse, I cannot feel the ejaculation of the male during penetration. Most women report feeling the heat as the man ejaculates. I can't, never have. I also usually have to masturbate mysel ....
Over the course of a year I have been having a monogomous sexual relationship
with my boyfriend. On a very rare occasion (twice), during intercourse, I have
experienced terrible cramping and exce ....
I have a lot of trouble with vaginal dryness and loss of sexual pleasure sensation. I was 37 when I had a complete hysterecotomy and my ovaries sugrically removed. I have been on premarim from 1987 t ....
Can intense sexual activity and stimulation of the breasts induce small amounts of white sweet milk and is this normal or something to worry about? Do some couples induce lactation to increase sexual ....
I can't orgasm. I feel good, but i never get to the point of orgasm. What are some things i can do? i've tried relaxing and i enjoy it, i know i dont have to have an orgasm every time but once in a ....
Just as I am about to orgasm I fall off the cliff. I feel like there is something wrong with my clitoris It is if it hides once it has been stimulated about 2minutes I had a hystorectomy at age 27I am ....
My son is engaged to a 20 year old girl. She was in a car accident on the 23 of Oct. She was in a coma for 60 days. She has woke up and is doing good as far as her mental status. She is paralyzed from ....
I need your advice, can you help me and give your advice about sex, because my wife is not satisfy with me. I am married, 1 year before. anybody can help me, where should I get sex specialist? she wan ....
No sexual desire. I am 24 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 8 years. I have no sexual desire. When we do have sex by body "usually" complies but there are times when I physically am not re ....
I fear that a man I have fallen in love with may in fact be a masochist. As the relationship progressed, there have been subtle hints that lead me to believe this. I also feel that he struggles with t ....
How is the vagina lubricated?
I've searched all of the online libraries, and I have only found
general information. Help!
Knowing that the vagina is sensitve to many things,
I was wondering if there would be a problem if some
kind of candy that could be inserted but not cause
any kind of problem? Hard or soft? This wo ....
What can I do when my arousal is so high that I get too lubricated and expand to the point I can't feel my partner. I have tried to use my muscles on him and I still can't grip him too good.
I am 16 and I have never had an orgasm. About a year ago, I started taking the antidepressant Paxil. After about 6 months of taking this, I stopped feeling the sensations of getting aroused. I still ....
How do I finger bang a girl properly so she reaches an orgasm?
I just been serouis relationship. I have a congintial myopthia and some womens problems due complications with endrometrios to . When my partner and me i loose all feeling he says he cant inter i can ....
MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 3 YEARS NOW AND I STILL DONT
FEEL COMFORTABLE ENOUGH WITH HIM TO SHOW HIM MY BODY OR TRY DIFFERENT
SEXUAL POSITIONS WITH HIM! DURING SEX I HAVE TO LEAVE MY SHI ....
I'm 19 years old and I've been having sex on a regular basis for about a year. I have no problem reaching orgasm through oral stimulation, but when my boyfriend and I have sex I have never been able ....
I've been married for 13 years, and have always had incredible sex with my husband. For about 3 months now though, I've noticed pain around my clitoris during my orgasm. My ob/gyn examined me, and f ....
PLEASE HELP! ever since i have been with my current girlfriend i have only been able to give her a clitoral orgasm on 3 occasions. (1 yr) we have sex quite regularly and it's great however she is only ....
i have never had a vaginal orgasm in 16 years of having sex with different partners.
clitoral orgasm is no problem. While stimulated by fingers i feel a sensation but not with a penis, if i do feel a ....
Please don't laugh-this is a serious question-i wonder if there is any position/technique that would allow during intercourse for the male to insert his testicles in the womans vagina(with the penis,o ....
Dear Dr. Owens,
I am a 24 year old female. I have been in a serious relationship for two and a half years. When my boyfriend and I started dating, I was a 'technical' virgin, that is to say, I ha ....
Gradual loss of vaginal lubrication, lack of pleasurable sensation in clitoral area, lack of sexual desire
I am a male trying to help my wife and I to have orgasm at the same time. She prefers massages instead of intercourse for orgasm. What can I do to have regular vaginal-penis sex and get best pleasure ....
I'm 18 yrs old and I used to love to have sex. Recently though I have taken a liking to masturbation. I would prefer to masturbate than have sex. Is this normal for a female my age?
Please help me out with sexual positions that won't put pressure on both partners knees. I don't mind pictures but I am not looking for porn.
When I put my finger in my wife's vagina I touch something that makes her flood almost like she is weeing, not all the time now and again. I'm always trying to find it but cant all the time, what have ....
A small study reported by New Mobility in Feb 1999 suggested that Viagra might enhance sexual arousal in women with spinal cord injury. Anything new on that subject?
I am a male C5 quad, and I like to perform oral sex on my female partner. She enjoys this, but after prolonged
stimulation of her clitoris, she says it gets numb and orgasm is harder to reach. S ....
Sex has become close to non-existent due to my wife's chronic pain associated with fibromyalgia. What suggestions
do you have for us?
Sex has become close to non-existent due to my wife's chronic pain associated with fibromyalgia. What suggestions
do you have for us?
I am a C 5-7 quad. Before my injury, my boyfriend frequently performed oral sex on me, which I enjoyed. Since my
injury, we have not had oral sex because I am afraid of incontinence and am not s ....
Getting a Leg Up
Can She or Can't She? My girlfriend is a low quad, and I find it difficult to be as sexually intimate as I want to be because she has never told me
what she can and can't do. How can I communica ....
Do I still have a G-spot?
My boyfriend and I have a close, intimate relationship. He is easily aroused and wants to have sex several times a day when we are together. Though he stays erect for long periods of time during our l ....
I would like to know how to induce lactation for sexual
pleasure. My husband and I saw this in a movie and it turned both of
us on. I am 32 and it ....
What about sex after hysterectomy? Will it feel the
same? Will HE feel the same? I am very worried, the
time has come to res ....
I have been dating a woman for a month now. I
can satisfy her orally, but not during intercourse. She
has had this problem ....
I'm 20 yrs old and have had sex a lot in the last five
years. My problem is that i don't know when i have an
orgasm. Serious ....
I'm embarrassed to go to purchase a "Love Toy" so I found an
aquarium light bulb that closely resembles a penis. I always wash it, but
....
I am 43 and have always heard that I should be at my sexual
peak. Unfortunately, I prefer cuddling & kissing to actual intercourse.
....
I'm a bit embarrassed to ask this question, but the other day my
partner and I were in midst of fooling around and I began to finger her.
....
My problem is quite simple: cannot get my girlfriend to orgasm. I read your twenty tips, have tried most, will suggest that she read them, but nothing seems to work. I tease, I work, I stay down, I us ....
I was just wondering if it is normal to not want to have sex all the
time. My boyfriend says that I should be entering my sexual peak. I
....
My wife is disabled. What is the normal period of recovery from a routine childbirth?
Over a period of time I have lost all feeling in my clitoris and my sex drive is gone, too. I was thinking it might be a loss of hormones. Is there some kind of medicine, herbs, or cream that could br ....
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