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Men's Sexual Health: Orgasm Orgasm Introduction:
Orgasm is the powerful, pleasurable release of sexual arousal and tension. For adult men, orgasm is usually accompanied by ejaculation, however orgasm is possible without ejaculation and ejaculation without pleasurable orgasm. Generally speaking, men will experience different muscle contractions throughout the pelvic and genital region, as well as in other parts of the body. Their heart rate and breathing will increase. Yet while physical orgasmic response can be generalized in these ways, the actual experience of orgasm can vary dramatically from person to person and from time to time. Some people describe orgasms as euphoric or spiritual. Others enjoy feeling almost out of control during orgasm, while others dislike the feelings of vulnerability the experience can induce. This channel deals with these issues.
Answered Men's Sexual Health - Orgasm Questions: I have never had a successful orgasm through oral sex. What's wrong with me?
I have seen a phsyciatrist for this issue and the advice he gave me was not to look at my problem as as a problem in my sex life so much as an abnormality in a perfectly healthy sex life and to accept ....
hi,im a 13 year old boy recently when i masturbate i get a pain in the back of my neck but it didnt until a couple of days ago ? also i am not sure if i have an orgasm or not i ejaculate normal but im ....
my girlfriend and I have recently started becoming more sexually active. A few days ago she was giving me oral and I was having orgasms but no semen was coming out at all.
i had 3 or 4 orgasms but ....
Hey, i am almost 14, with no armit hair and a little hair on my legs. I have tried a lot (fast, slow, lubricant but I havent been able to cum or have any kind of orgasm or ejaculation. I can feel wher ....
my boyfriends sperm is really thick and white. its very clumpy and isnt runny at all. why is this, is it a problem?
recently my boyfriend and I were making love and at the end he climaxed so strongly (mostly manual stimulation, his ejaculate went as far as the top of his shoulder) that his entire body seemed to con ....
i am 19 and about 3 years ago i got hit with my testis and it swelled. but later it got better. but ever since i have sex i can't last long. is there anything i can do
I have no problems getting a erection. I often get plenty of erections But, my penis tends to leak semen-like fluid after each erection. For example when we are not having sex, but just making out on ....
Dear Friend,I'm a homosexual person and I've been in a very successful relationship since 2 years,I'm the active person and I have a concern about my partner.I sometimes ejaculate(release sperm) insid ....
Sometimes when my boyfriend orgasms it seems to go on a long time, in waves as it were. Once it was as though he was having up to 8 separate orgasms - we counted. There is usually quite a few minutes ....
hi, im 28 years old, virgin and im having this problem when im having sexual intercourse with my gf and before her with some other girls. the thing i can get her all excited but i cant cum not even wi ....
About a week ago, in the early morning, I had strange feeling in my left lower back, similar to that of an arm falling asleep. At the same time, I also had the same feeling in the top portion of the h ....
Dear Sexualhealth,
My wife and I are trying to conceive, and I realize how little I know about timings, etc. She told me that we should not have sex more than every 48 hours because my sperm would ....
Hi,
I was wondering is there any way to increase the amount you ejaculate?
hi
i have a friend named chris, ho happens to be gay, (no big deal, were great friend still)and reciently he has been complaining to me about some pain in his testicles. heres the actuall conversatio ....
i have been masterbating for almost 12 years now and it seems that now when i do it i get a headache in the lower back of my head. does masterbation have anything to do with it? It only seems to happe ....
I have been seeing this guy for a few months and we have had sex a couple of times. Last night while I was giving him oral pleasure he squirted quite a bit of "SUBSTANCE". I'm not sure what it was b ....
hi,
i am a 24 yr old male. i seem to have uncontrolled ejaculations in my sleep. its very embarrassing. i also suffer from P.E. Any advice on how to avoid these early morning wet spots?
thank ....
Hi. Let me give you as much personal info as I can to help you diagnose.
I'm a healthy mid 40's male. 6 ft 200lbs. I am not overweight,(was years ago) and I lead an active lifestyle. All my freinds ....
Can semen "leak" from the penis with no sexual stimulation.
It takes my boyfriend from 3 up to 8 hours to have an orgasm. What I wanna know is if there are some technics that I can use in bed to help him ejaculate faster.
I'm a 14 y/o male who's been sexually active for a month or so now, and I'm just curious about whether or not something I've noticed is "normal".
I've found that after a couple of minutes into m ....
Is is true that increased masterbation can create longer stamina during sexual intercourse? I've come to realize that during oral sex, I go off in like three minutes or less, but during intercourse I ....
I'm 79 y/o. I still very much love sex. But I have trouble ejackulating. The only way is to masterbate for a very long time. I don't cum as much either. Is there anything that I can do?
A few years back I noticed that I lost the pleasureable feeling associated with the male orgasm. My overall sensitivity is down as well. Sometimes I ejaculate without any real feeling at all other the ....
How do you get an orgasm alone without a partner, sex toys, pills, or anything except you and your body?
i USUALLY SEX WITH MY WIFE BUT I SEE I INTERCOURSE WITH HER 3 TIMES COUNTINOUSLY BUT WHEN I DOING INTERCOURSE I INJECT MATERIAL WITH IN 1 1/2 MINUTES SO PLZ TELL ME IF I AM NORMAL THEN TELL ME AND IF ....
Whenever I think something erotic or touch a lady or talk a lady somethink transparent ,gelly like substance come out of my penis.I can't masturbate for mare than 1 minute. I have been masturbating si ....
I masturbate and just before i come i get this horrible pain a pinching pain on the top of my head into my ear/jaw and then as soon as i come it subsides abit ...but i keep the headache until i take ....
Dear Dr:
I am an 18 year old male and recently me and my girlfriend of 6 months began having sex. I can attain an erection and give my girlfriend an orgasm, but for some reason i cant achieve orgasm. ....
I guess I'm writing in concern for my fiance. We have been together for about one year. Before him i had several partners as did he. While im not a man so i cant say for sure, it appears to me that ....
Thank you for taking the time to answer my question. My problem is as follow, im a incomplete paraplegic and i have some problems having an erection my doctor recommended viagra and some times it wor ....
My boyfriend and i have only been together for a short time, but we are very intensly in love with eachother. However, he finds it impossible to ejaculate during sex. i am his third partner and this i ....
When i go to have oral sex with my 14 year old girlfreind and she is able to have sex (she had her period since she was 11). She likes it when i lick her vagina / clitoris noramlly but when i stick my ....
I have not had the sensitivity in my penis or genitals to allow me to reach orgasm. It causes me frustration and my partner is also frustrated. Is there anything I can do to regain that sensitivity? I ....
After sex I am thoroughly drained for two days afterwards. I feel extreme anxiety for at least 24 hours afterwards and am very irritable. It also affects my brain as well - I am unable to concentrat ....
My husband is 43 year old with a condition called anklynosis spondilitis (probably spelled that wrong). While our sex life is good, sometimes his orgasms cause him severe pain in his groin area and c ....
I was just wondering if it is possible for a man to ejaculate without having an orgasm (and vice versa). The terms "orgasm" and "ejaculation" seem to be used interchangeably for men so i'm a little c ....
I am a 25-year-old woman in a monogamous relationship with a man of the same age. We are not sexually active, but plan to be so soon. We have both had on average 3 sexual partners before. This current ....
I have noticed that the consistency/makeup of my ejaculate has changed markedly from thick, creamy, sticky to thin/clear and very little of it.
The nature of my orgasm seems to have diminished (but I ....
I'm an 18 year old male. I'm in good shape and good health. My problem is to say the least, odd. I first noticed it in gymnastics during my 7th grade year. Let's say that made me 13 or so. The problem ....
Our 15 year old son told my husband and me that in the past few days when he has masterbated, he has reached an orgasm but has not ejaculated; nothing came out of his penis. He was not trying to do t ....
Hello I'm a 18 year old male and have a problem with ejactulating. I have never had an orgasim in my life, I have also never masturbated before, I'm some-what of a mascacist I always turned to pain fo ....
I am a 19 year old m. single. I have never had sex with anyone . But every two or three days (average) I have wet dreams and I think that is too much.Should I visit a doctor? I am worried about that.I ....
Hi Dr. Birch, I am 23 years old, fairly healthy: I lift weights three times a week, eat well, drink lots of water (my only bad habit is smoking 10 cigarettes per day) I am concerned because I feel li ....
I am a 20 year old male and I have just started a sexual relationship and have a few problems.
First of all during my teenage years I could never masturbate to orgasm.
The first few times I had se ....
I'm only 47, but I'm finding my sexual life changing. Not necessarily for the better.
Erections that came on their own must now be brought about by direct stimulation. Visual aids don't help.
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I am frequently hearing about individuals in the BDSM and/or D/s lifestyle practicing somtehing they refer to as Denial of Release.
I would like to obtain as many aspects as possible to the good an ....
Dr Birch,
My Problem is regarding oral sex with my boyfriend. He is unable to come to orgasim through oral sex. He has never recieved oral sex from any of his previous sex partners before me. He s ....
HI, I'M A 23 YEAR OLD MALE ..MY PROBLEM IS THAT WHEN I HAVE SEX WITH MY PARTNER IT BECOMES DIFFICULT FOR ME TO EYACULATE , SPECIALLY INTRA VAGINA EYACULATION???
I'm not sure my boyfriend is ejaculating every time we have sex. We usually have sex for a couple of hours but at the end sometimes I think he fakes orgasm. How can I tell if he is having an orgasm or ....
I'm clueless when it comes to this stuff, but i've been told that after ejaculation the penis usually goes limp again. When masturbating, i'll ejaculate after 5 minutes on average, but then I can keep ....
I'm a 32 old male, healthy and athletic with probably above normal sexual desire. But my most intensive orgasm comes not from having sex with an attractive partner, but from getting into certain posit ....
I am 23 years old and have been married for three years. My husband has no problem orgasming during sex, but he can not orgasm during oral sex. I know that it isn't me! I thought maybe it could be a ....
hi. I was wondering is it normal for a teenager to ejaculate once bi- weekly,because of intense sexual desire without masturbation
Hi I am From India. I have been masturbating for past 15 years. Sometimes it used to be 10 times in a day. Now the problem is that i dont get orgasm when i masturbate. I am too shy to contact a docto ....
Hi I am From India. I have been masturbating for past 15 years. Sometimes it used to be 10 times in a day. Now the problem is that i dont get orgasm when i masturbate. I am too shy to contact a docto ....
I have noticed that when I masturbate the nerves at the head of my penis are very sensitive. I have a slight (not painful) achy feeling by my left testicle as well. When I ejaculate it trickles. It ....
What hormones are directly involved in orgasm and ejaculation? Could one be normally formed sexually, but have a hormone deficiency that prevented orgasm? Are their hormones involved in genital sensit ....
I am a physically fit 21 year old Caucasian. I have never orgasmed in my
whole life, I also have never ejaculated (through masterbation or by
stimulation by another) but I do have wet dreams every s ....
I am a t3/4 complete paraplegic male resulting from a MVA 12 years ago. I have discovered just recently with the use of Viagra and a persistence lady friend that I could ejaculate. This was a little p ....
When I ejaculate, a very small amount of semen is excreted. I know for sure it is semen. It does not squirt or shoot but it just slowly comes out of my penis.... is there sumthing wrong?
I have high sex desires but many times l can not maintain an erection. At times I go soft even still in the act, making me fake an orgasm for my partner. My penis is terribly small, about 5cm and l c ....
This may sound like a stupid question, but I haven't really found out if this is normal or not...is it normal, after an ejaculation, to have a slight lingering ache around my penis? Nothing major or ....
What could cause me to be unable to climax and ejaculate after prolonged
intercourse? This all started about six months ago.
My boyfriend is a 49-year-old cancer survivor. He has trouble maintaining an erection for intercourse for the past four months. It comes and goes, but it's never hard enough for penetration. Could thi ....
My husband and I have had a fine sex life since we have been together. However, lately he has not been able to reach orgasm. He can become erect and stay that way, but he says he doesn't feel anythi ....
My interest in sex has been on a steady decline for the last year or so. When I do have sex with my wife, I ejaculate, but do not have the sensation of an orgasm. I have no trouble obtaining an erec ....
I was wondering how often a normal, healthy male in his 30's could achieve an orgasm. I love sex with my wife, but some times she can go for more sex,and I'm able to get an erectoin but unable to hav ....
hello,
lately i have been having more trouble ejaculating during during masturbation as well as intercourse. i have no problem getting an erection and keeping it, until i am trying to have an orga ....
I was wondering how often a normal, healthy male in his fifty's could achieve an orgasm. My husband can usually achieve an erection, but lately he is not always reaching orgasm.
I was just wondering if you could tel ma a technique or two that would help me last longer in bed.
I heard that one method (masturbate until just prior to ejaculation then stop, and repeat one or two ....
I need your advice, can you help me and give your advice about sex, because my wife is not satisfy with me. I am married, 1 year before. anybody can help me, where should I get sex specialist? she wan ....
I need your advice, can you help me and give your advice about sex, because my wife is not satisfy with me. I am married, 1 year before. anybody can help me, where should I get sex specialist? she wan ....
I need your advice, can you help me and give your advice about sex, because my wife is not satisfy with me. I am married, 1 year before. anybody can help me, where should I get sex specialist? she wan ....
I have no problem attaining or maintaining an erection, but as soon as it comes to sex I lose it. Everything is fine until it comes to putting on a condom. What should I do?
I ejaculates before entering a women, I feel ashamed that I can not perform.
please help me to solve this problem.
i thought ejaculation was a spinal reflex, when i have sex, it feels great but i dont orgasm or ejaculate, how can this be?
Good day,
I am writing to find some sort of answer which in some aspects makes me feel inadequate when it comes to my partner. For quite sometime now I seem to ejaculate quite rapidly through inter ....
I've noticed that I can bring myself to an orgasim pretty quickly during masturbation but am unable to perform with my partner. I know it's in my head and after doing some reading I think I have a per ....
I have an extemely large volume of precum and a small volume of ejaculation Is it something to worry about?
My wife reports that, after an orgasm, my testicles move in a pronounced
undulating, contracting movement. I'm just curious about the physiological
purpose of the movement. Thanks.
hi
i am not able to masturbate frequently (there needs to be a gap of at least 7-8 hours between successive masturbations . also i am find it difficult to masturbate daily for more than 3-4 days). ....
My boyfriend is unable to ejaculate from having sex. He says that he can ejaculate from masturbation. He suffered a head injury 5 years ago, but he says that for the first year afterward, he had no ....
My husband has recently had difficulty ejaculating. Over the past two weeks he has had less interest in masturbation and intercourse. When we had intercourse he was able to ejaculate, but has not been ....
I am 35 and seeing a man 55yrs. old. I'm just wondering about male sexuality at that age.What can you tell me.
I think I have experienced orgasms in my sleep (4 of them over the last 2 years)
Is this possible?
I really have two questions. What does it mean if my semen is yellow and chunky. It is not white and as fluid as the semen I see in porno's. Secondly, I used to be able to have sex multiple times a ....
when I have an erection for lengthy periods of time and/or when I orgasm I have pain and a lump slightly above and right of my genitals. The lump feels as though something is swollen and can get quite ....
I ejaculate during intercourse, but not when materbating. How can I produce an organsim during masterbation? Would you recommend a sex therapist?
My boyfriend and I have wonderful sex together, but he takes forever to come, and
sometimes he doesn't come at all. When I ask him if he's happy, and/or if he
satisfied, he replies with an emph ....
What could cause a man to be unable to either climax or ejaculate after prolonged intercourse? This is a fairly recent (last 6 mos) problem.
I have two questions, 1. is there a male g spot and where is it?
2. I have had 3 partners and have only had one orgasm with the one im with now
who is my boyfriend of 7 months. I had my first one ....
I FIND IT TAKES ME AGES TO EJACULATE DURING SEX. I HAVE NEVER EJACULATED FROM ORAL SEX AND I WANT TO, SO DOES MY GIRLFRIEND! HOW CAN I MAKE MYSELF CUM QUICKER?
This is my question:
Can a man feel when he "comes" during intercourse?
I mean can he feel it?
My partner had an orgasm without having his genital area touched at all. There was sexual tension, a message, and nibbling on his ear, and he orgasmed after about 3 hours of preparing for me giving h ....
Throughout my life, I have still to experience an orgasm. I ejaculate and I have no problems with my erection.
Its really frustrating to experience arousal but just ending in a "pop" and then a fee ....
i woul like to ask you that what is the min , max & average time
that a man can hold on during intercourse
Never had much of a sex life. Remained a virgin until age 33. College educated economically sound not even a bad looking guy, just wasn't in the cards for me . Well one day a beautiful friend from my ....
This past (December '99)I had a Turp, and this past February 2000 I had a penile implant and since then I have lost all feeling in my glans. I am unable to stimulate myself to orgasm. If I could I u ....
I am a 19 year-old male and have never had sex and will be sometime soon with my girlfriend. I have 3 questions:
1) My penis is small, about 3.5 inches hard and 2 inches soft. Can I give my girlfri ....
I want to know if this disease can be cure.Im not maried and I want do.
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My entire adult life I have had a healthy, active sex life. Recently, I have had very powerful orgasms with no ejaculation. Each time has been during oral sex with my wife. Should I be concerned? I ....
I get a erection, but am not able to maintain it for more that a 5 seconds, as soon as my penis comes in contact with the vagina it ejaculates. This causes shame and humiliation to me. Please suggest ....
I am 20 years old and I am engaged to a 26 year old woman. She is only my third sexual partner. The first time we had sex, I lasted fairly long, and for the next fifteen times or so, I lasted just as ....
I am a C6-7 incomplete quad with pretty good sensation
and no trouble getting erections. The problem is, I can only
ejaculate for about two days in a row, sometimes three. Then
I mus ....
I found your site to be very helpful for me. Can you please tell me whether I should go for medication for increasing duration. I usually have problems for first time ..which only continues for 3-4 mi ....
Hello! I am a male and like to masturbate fairly often. But, in some porno films I have seen the guy always pushes his forefinger into his scrotum; the positioning of the finger is usually in the cent ....
I'm 15. I can't ejaculate when I masturbate the normal way and am erect but i can when I'm soft and hump the ground. What's wrong?
I used to have bad itching on my penis and scrotum so i scratched them quite a bit..sometimes with brushes...now i can go hours and not ejaculate...and i feel i am not too sensitive. I am really embar ....
Is it normal to get aroused by any little thing a women does to you. Such as hugs or kisses or even holding hands. My girlfriend always asks why I'm so aroused, and to me it's kind of embarrassing... ....
My boyfriend and I have a close, intimate relationship. He is easily aroused and wants to have sex several times a day when we are together. Though he stays erect for long periods of time during our l ....
My boyfriend takes forever to ejaculate, if at all. He does not have a problem ejaculating with oral sex and I suspect that there is not enough "friction" during regular intercourse. He says that it i ....
I am a 32-yr old male and I would like to ask you
a question about something that I'm embarassed to
discuss with my doctor: ....
I'm a 21 year old male who has an interesting
problem. I usually masturbate fairly regularly, but when
I can't (for 5-7 days ....
I am a 52 year old male with a problem regarding
failure to orgasm/ejaculate. The problem started
roughly a year ago, with t ....
I am a married male, age 35. Since taking an anti-depressant
called Zoloft (I am still on it), my orgasms seem less intense. What
can I do to increa ....
I have been taking 75mg. of Effexor once a day to fight panic
attacks. Originally I was taking Paxil, but I had an almost complete
loss of sensation ....
My boyfriend of 1 year is 21 years old. Half of the time when
we have sex he is unable to orgasm. He says he loses feeling or it
starts to hurt. He ....
Help! My boyfriend and I have a very wonderful and
caring relationship. He is a very considerate lover and
always is concer ....
My husband & I have a wonderful relationship. Our
intimate times tops everything. I'm a little concerned
about something tha ....
Thank you very much! One more question. When
we have intercourse, it is almost impossible for him to
ejaculate inside of me ....
I am a 49 year old male. I have always had difficulty
in achieving an orgasm. Lately, I have begun to wonder
whether an inh ....
I am a man of 39 years old. I have very few sexual
experience up to now and nearly all of them ended in
masturbation by my ....
I found your site a real lifesaver as it provides a
great deal of information about what is masturbation
and how we can get ....
My girlfriend is a cum "freak." What kind of diet
or vitamins will help to increase the amount of semen
produced and what ....
Hello, I'm a 26 yr old male that has a problem
ejaculating. My girlfriend and I just had sex for the first
time. We've been ....
I have been reviewing your web site. I have been
consulting with doctors but since I had a sigmoid
resectioning done on my c ....
My boyfriend can't reach an orgasm with me. He had an
erection and good intercourse but he never ends with an
ejacul ....
My problem, I think, is penis desensitization. I'm
a single male in my early 30's and I enjoy masturbation
quite a bit. Ther ....
I have suffered from ejaculatory retardation for my entire
adult life, beginning with my first attempt at sex with the
....
Is it possable for a man to reach an orgasm through
anal entry?
My boyfriend and I just became sexually active with
each other. When we have sex he is very excited and
enjoys the sensatio ....
I'm a 32 year old male. I'm also very sexual. Recently I have had a problem with ejaculation. I have masturbated bet ....
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