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Love and Relationships: Sexual Addiction and Compulsion

Sexual Addiction and Compulsion Introduction:
There is a difference between frequently thinking about and being involved in sexual relationships, and being what people refer to as a “sex addict.” This controversial diagnosis involves, according to Dana E. Putnam, PhD, “sexual behavior that significantly interferes with a person's life. The behavior may result in harm to a person's relationships, work, health, and / or psychological well being. Despite experiencing the harmful affects of their behavior, the person with a sexual addiction continues the behavior." It is impossible to diagnose a sexual compulsion or addiction without seeing a trained counselor or therapist who has experience working in this area.

Sexual Addiction and Compulsion Articles:

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  • Do You Have a Problem with Porn?
  • Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, and Your Sex Life

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