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Love and Relationships: Keeping Sex Fun

Keeping Sex Fun Introduction:
The media often depicts sexual behaviors as very intense and serious. And many people focus more on performance than on pleasure when it comes to sex. We can forget, therefore, how FUN sex is! It is important, however, for couples to remember the fun aspect of sex – to explore fantasies, relationship-enhancing toys, or anything else, if everyone in the relationship is comfortable doing so. At the very least, couples should be able to express openly the joy that comes from having a pleasurable sexual experience. Every person and couple needs to determine for themselves what is and is not “fun” when it comes to sex. This channel looks at ways in which sex can be more fun for individuals and partners.

Keeping Sex Fun Articles:

  • Sex Toys and Where to Purchase Them
  • The Joys that Vibrators Can Bring to Your Sex Life
  • Sexual Fantasies and Relationships
  • Spicing Up Your Sex Life
  • Resolve to Have a Sexier New Year
  • Taoism and Sexuality
  • Review of Climatique Arousal Cream
  • How to Negotiate for the Romantic Intimacy You Want
  • Celebrate National Masturbation Month: Be A Good Sex Toy Consumer
  • Yoga and Sex
  • Lovemaking Tips for Men - You Get What You Give
  • Does Your Date Want to Take It to the Next Level?
  • Fantasies as Doorways to the Unconscious
  • The Seven Year Itch - Rescuing Your Relationship
  • Foreplay the Tantra Way
  • Online Affairs: Are They Real? Are They Wrong?
  • You’re Not The Same Person I Fell In Love With!
  • How to Eroticize Safe Sex
  • Sex Toy Advice: The Dangers of Phthalates
  • Finding the Most Orgasmic Positions For Sex
  • How to Breathe for Sex: Arousal breathing helps you to feel more
  • New Year's Sexual Resolutions
  • It’s how you play the game: Don’t let performance anxiety ruin your sex life
  • To Videotape or Not to Videotape?
  • What Are You Looking For In A Partner?
  • Our Fasciniation with Celebrity Sex Tapes
  • The New Social Media and Relationship Transitions
  • Quickies for Couples
  • The Empowerment of Erotic Dance: The Benefits of Stripping For Your Partner
  • Chakras and Sexuality
  • Women’s Empowerment Through Adult Entertainment
  • Together: Sex Toys for Him & Her
  • Feng Shui Your Bedroom for Better Sex
  • How to Kiss
  • The Art of Flirting For the Social Networker: How to Transition from Online To Real Time
  • Spice Up Your Sex Life: Seven surprising things to shake up your sex life
  • Introducing Sex Toys into a Relationship
  • Honey, Your Feet Are Freezing! And Other Things I Wish I Could Tell You In Bed
  • Stimulating the Clitoris with Intercourse
  • The Sensual Seduction of Massage

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    Answered Love and Relationships - Keeping Sex Fun Questions:

  • Hi Dr. Kat,

    I've been in a five month relationship with my boyfriend now, and we're both 16. We are also both virgins, but we have experimented. However, when he bites my nipples, it's beginnin ....

  • I have a rather embarrassing problem. I'm a gay man who enjoys receiving anal penetration. However, I always seem to be 'occupied' when it comes time to go at it. My body seems to store waste in my ....
  • Well when I first started going out with my girl friend there was no pressure to make her "come", it shocked me the first time she said she was wet. I made her come really big the first time through m ....
  • How commonly do couples reach orgasm together? Is it something that only happens in movies?
  • Dear Dr. Kat, Recently I have bought a penis ring. It's designed to stimulate woman with "pearls" around the ring. It doesn't strenghten erection, but it does squeeze the penis a bit so even after ej ....
  • I am a 20 year old guy and have been seriously dating this girl, whom i love very much, but seem to be having some sexual difficulties with for about 5 months now. We have been together now for over ....
  • hello i am 21 my name is adam. i looked at a topic about a guy who's girlfriend wanted to use a strap on on him. he said he was intrested and wanted advice. i also am intrested in doing this with my g ....
  • Dear Dr. Kat,

    I'm a 35-year-old married woman in a ten-year relationship. It's gotten to the point where is seems like I'm having the same sex all the time. My husband says he is up for trying s ....

  • My wife and I have been involved in the "swinger" scene for some time now. It's been a wonderful way to express our sexuality as a couple over the years. However, I've sensed she has had more than a f ....
  • My girlfriend wants to use a strap-on about ten inches big so she can show me how it feels to be penetrated -- she thinks I will like it. I've never done anything like this before but it does interest ....
  • Dear Dr. Kat,

    The only sex toy we ever had was a vibrator I bought for myself about 10 years ago. It just died and now I'd like a new one. But I'd really love to share this aspect of my sexua ....

  • My husband and I are getting prepared to have a lot of family over for the holidays. The problem is that we're concerned that having family stay with us will affect our sex life negatively. With m ....
  • My husband and I have been together several years and the sex has always been good but recently I've been curious about incorporating a vibrator into our lovemaking. How do I get him interested in ....
  • Dear Dr. Kat,

    My husband and I are newly married and he was recently sent to the Middle East with a deployment by the Armed Forces. How can we keep the home-fires burning sexually while he's awa ....

  • hi, ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years and the sex use to be great but for the past 6 months he would prefer to be on his own with a porn video and if i do finally get sex he never gets ....
  • i am having a problem with my man in the bedroom we are a gay couple been together for almost 10 months hes not a very sexual person and i have a high sex drive i am 22 hes 43 my problem is he always ....
  • ok.... um.... i really love my girlfriend.... haven't been so happy in my life.....and i am absolutely comfortable with her..... but i have a problem with becoming nervous when we are about to have se ....
  • Hello, I have asked you a few questions before but i have a few more to ask you! I sent you two e-mails but that was probably about 2 or 3 weeks ago so i'm going to try again because i really need you ....
  • Hello, More or less my profile states my problem. It is inability to orgasm during sex, but can achieve orgasm thru masturbation. My partner and I love each other a lot. but we have had stressful t ....
  • I am 32 years old. I have two children 8 and 6. My husband and i havent had the time to have sex at all this summer because of them. They never go to sleep and they are always by my side. Not only hav ....
  • We have just started a role play - my wife, very sweetly whispered to me that I would not be allowed to use my lips ie no kissing during this roleplay.

    The sex was great for both of us - My ques ....

  • My Husband and I have a question, We have recently started trying different things of intrest to us, We have begun to explore anal sex for him and I. While pentrating him with a sex toy he began to r ....
  • How do you get an orgasm alone without a partner, sex toys, pills, or anything except you and your body?
  • I am a 21 year old male. I have this problem with being able to sustain an erection with a girl. The problem is that when I start to get intimate I obtain an erection and as soon as the clothes come ....
  • Hello, My wife and I are interested in me performing Analingus on her. We have been married for a little over a year, and were both virgins when we got married.

    I had hepatitis A about 8 y ....

  • I have been dating my bf for a year and we are very much in love. We have decided we want to have oral sex but he isnt circumsized. I have heard that guys who arent circumsized dont get any pleasure f ....
  • I am a 33 year old, fairly attractive woman that has never had an orgasm. I have a history of getting bored with my relationships. I have previously had 2 relationships of over 2 years, 1 of over 5 ye ....
  • I was just wondering the average time of intercouse, like how long it usually lasts?
  • Hi, where can I find articles and information about Cauda equina syndrome? I'm a 34 year old healthy and active female two years post op after emergency lumbar laminectomy w/o fusion and a partial dis ....
  • I would like to know if i am being unreasonable in my thinking that there is a differance between making love and sex. I feel like my husband and I just have sex because I don't feel as though there i ....
  • I've been with my partner for a year and sexually active just as long. I was wondering if it is true that I may be 30 before my first sex-related orgasm. My mom told me it is possible but I've been wi ....
  • First of all sorry for my poor english I wish you will be able to understand my question.

    I am living at Turkey,Istanbul. Maybe you dont know that we are not really free to have a sex with ourgi ....

  • My wife and I have been together for 8 years, married for 4. Our sex life in her words has never been more than "ok" but in the last few months the situation has got worse. At present we have neither ....
  • Me and my girl friend have been dating for 7 years. Sex was great up the last year. We used to have sex ever time we had the chance. When she got pregnant she seemed to lose all interest in sex, our ....
  • My girlfriend and I are both virgins, and we will not have sex until we are married. I just had a question about female anatomy. A while back, we were getting physical with each other a bit. I touc ....
  • Hello just a quikie for ya, I am a 20 year old male and in just a few days my hottub will be fixed. During a conversation with my good friend and his girlfriend we got to talking about the huttub and ....
  • My problem is me and my boyfriend of 1 year have both been wanting to explore new regions and new ways of having sex or mastibating for each other my question is what other ways is there of sex after ....
  • My partner and i have been having sex for a long time, but i have been wanting to try new things i was wondering if u could advise me on some positions or give me websites?
  • Hi, I am an American male living in China and I fell in love with a Chinese girl but we have a problem. I have a larger than normal penis and she is smaller than normal. She is only about four feet 1 ....
  • I am a 26 year old female. I enjoy having sex with my boyfriend but lately it has become less enjoyable. We use condoms as our main birth control. When we are having sex everything seems to be going f ....
  • How do I know that I gave GOOD oral sex ? When giving head...Is it ok for the guy to jack himself off while the girl sucks ???
  • My boyfriend and I have sex by phone, because he live far away me. Is it normal? We have phone sex frecuently. We are very passionate at that respect How can i get the difference betwenn love and des ....
  • I am 15 years old, and me and my boyfriend started having sex about a month ago. We've only had sex maybe 3 times, but, everytime we do, it hurts like crazy, I'm sore for a couple of days afterwards, ....
  • My boyfriend is 40 years old, I'm 33. He has been divorced for 6 years (no relationships during that time); I have been divorced for 3 years (he is my first loving and sexual relationship in that tim ....
  • i have never given or recieved oral sex but i was wondering how to please my partner in oral sex and what he really wants?
  • Recently, I watched a program on TV -The Early Show- and there was a discussion about something that you could take to increase your sexual desire. I did not catch the whole conversation, but one of t ....
  • My boyfriend kindly recommended that I get some pointers to improve my oral sex skills. Are there any specific ones that you know of? Thank you!
  • i'm not interested in sex with my husband anymore, i don't have any desire for it and i do it just for the sake that he's my husband and i have to do it..no feelings at all and no sensation, i even fe ....
  • I've been married for the last 10 yrs. Our marriage was great and our sex lives were great also. But the last 4 yrs it’s all going down hill. I love my husband we had an open relationship, which was ....
  • I am a 29 year old female. I have been married for 6 years and 9 months, and in the past year and a half or so my sex drive has almost completely vanished. My husband and I used to have sex 2-3 times ....
  • My husband and I have been married 28 years. I love my husband and enjoy and anticipate sex with him. However, I am very frustrated over his premature ejaculation. I want to be patient and supporti ....
  • I am a 28 year old female who had a baby almost a year ago. Since I gave birth I lost sexual desire. Before the baby I had desire often and my husband and I had a healthy sex life now I have none, zip ....
  • i thought ejaculation was a spinal reflex, when i have sex, it feels great but i dont orgasm or ejaculate, how can this be?
  • I have been married for 7 years to a beautiful woman. She is all my desires and thoughts. Our sex life is good as long as I do things only she likes and wants. My biggest problem is that I fantasize a ....
  • My husband & I have been married 13 years. Sex has always been very good. But, this last year he comes very quickly. He has an enlarged prostate, can this have anything to do with iT?He always feels v ....
  • My partner had an orgasm without having his genital area touched at all. There was sexual tension, a message, and nibbling on his ear, and he orgasmed after about 3 hours of preparing for me giving h ....
  • On 2 occasions in the last few months, my wife and I have made love in the middle of the night. Afterwards she has been upset and when ask why, she has informed me that I awoke here and was very persi ....
  • My boyfriend wants me to perform oral sex, but the thing is I dont' want to. Reason for it is that his genital area has an odor. I was once told that having been sexually active your own odor changes. ....
  • I am 20 years old and I am engaged to a 26 year old woman. She is only my third sexual partner. The first time we had sex, I lasted fairly long, and for the next fifteen times or so, I lasted just as ....
  • I am a 52-year-old woman with multiple sclerosis. Before the onset of MS five years ago, my husband and I made love about once a week and I always had an orgasm. But the more disabled I get the ....
  • Sex has become close to non-existent due to my wife's chronic pain associated with fibromyalgia. What suggestions do you have for us?
  • Sex has become close to non-existent due to my wife's chronic pain associated with fibromyalgia. What suggestions do you have for us?
  • My husband and I had a baby nine months ago and our relationship seems to be on a down hill slide. We have had sex no more t ....
  • My girlfriend is having problems reaching orgasms as of lately. We have been sexually active for about a year and a half and nothing like this has ....
  • I need to talk to someone about my wife's and my problems. they are issues that are intimate and I need help solving ....
  • Dr Owens, please help!!!! I am a 37 yr. old male and I have a 24 yr. old girlfriend. We get along just great the first few m ....
  • I seem to have a problem. When ever I have intercourse my vagina dries up and it gets painful. Is there something I can do?
  • Hello, I'm a 26 yr old male that has a problem ejaculating. My girlfriend and I just had sex for the first time. We've been ....
  • I am very excited when me and my fiancee are in foreplay but in the 4 years and 1 kid later I have only orgasmed maybe 3 ti ....
  • I am a 42 year old male and have been married for 20 years. My wife had more partners then I before we were marr ....
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