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Can I get pregnant if I have unprotected sex during my period?

I’m a 16-year-old girl, and I just had sex for the first time...and we didn't have a condom. He pulled out early...and I started to get my period that night. Is there a chance that I could get pregnant?

Could my girlfriend be pregnant if we had unprotected sex 14 days after her period started?

I have a question about pre-ejaculation fluid. I've always used the withdrawal method when I've had sex with my partners...but I was told recently that “pre-cum” might get a girl pregnant. Is this true? Also, could my wonderful new girlfriend be pregnant? The last time we had sex was 14 days after her period started. Lastly, can you recommend anything I can read to further educate myself on contraceptives?

How can I convince my boyfriend to use a condom?

My boyfriend doesn’t like to use a condom when we have sex because he says condoms reduce his sensation. I know we should use a condom to prevent pregnancy and STDs, so how can I talk to him about it?

Is it possible to get pregnant after having my tubes tied?

I’ve had my tubes tied for eight years, but now I’m with a new partner and we’ve both been talking about how great it would be to have a baby. Would it be possible to reverse my procedure so I could have a baby?

I’ve been having unprotected sex, but my partner pulls out before he comes...could I still get pregnant?

I'm 32 and I should have known better. I recently started dating a guy, and we ended up having sex without a condom. My period comes every 29 days and last for about five days of blood and another seven days of on-and-off brown discharge. We had sex nine days after my period started and he pulled out of me before he came. Six days later, we had sex again...this time with a condom, but he first was inside me without a condom. But when he came, he had the condom on. We had sex three more times that night...all without a condom, but every time he pulled out. What do you think are my chance of getting pregnant? I haven't been on birth control in two years.

Are there any birth control methods that are harmful to women with a spinal chord injury?

I have been a T8 paraplegic for three years, and have recently started a relationship that includes sex. I know I can get pregnant, but I don't know the best way to prevent it. Are there any birth control methods that are dangerous for women with spinal cord injury?

I’m getting a vasectomy...will I be able to have normal sex afterward?

I am 45-years-old, married with two teenage children. I’m planning to have a vasectomy, but I’m concerned about how long the procedure takes and how it will affect my sex life. Is it safe? Is it foolproof? Can I have normal sex after the operation? Is it possible to reverse it if I want to?

How effective is the withdrawal method?

My boyfriend and I have been having sex without a condom most of the time we have sex. We used a condom twice, but for the other 13 times, he just pulls out before he cums. It has been a couple weeks after my last period...so is there a chance that I could be pregnant? How would I know?

How good is the Pill at preventing pregnancy?

My girlfriend is on the Pill and we use condoms...but the last time we had sex, the condom came off. It was 13 days before she expects her period. Is it possible for her to get pregnant because the condom slipped off? Should we get the “morning after” pill?